(Closed) Help, can I wear my ugly band without ruining my set? Lots of pics

posted 6 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Should I wear my original wedding band with my new set?
    Yes : (18 votes)
    62 %
    No : (11 votes)
    38 %
  • Post # 3
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    6 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I personally think you can do whatever you want.  (Not much help there was that?) 

    My mom still wears her original set with her new anniversary ring for 30 years.  They don’t match at all, but she said she can’t imagine not wearing the orignial one after all these years. 

    The beauty of it is that you have options and can wear it all the time, sometimes or never. 🙂

    Post # 4
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    252 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I personally love the mis matched thing, it’s very in right now. Lots of girls are mixing metals. Beautiful set! I don’t think anything could make that look bad!

    Post # 6
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    4193 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

    You could always wear it on your right hand

    Post # 7
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    1418 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @rebwana:  +1 yes, wear it on your right hand!

    Post # 8
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    224 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2012 - Padua Hills Theater

    I think it looks fine with your new ring. If you really want to wear it you should wear it. Like @FutureMrsBdub said, mis matched rings are totally in. 

    Post # 9
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    3451 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think it looks good. 🙂

    Post # 11
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    228 posts
    Helper bee

    I like the idea of wearing either the band or set on your right hand, or you could get the metal and stones custom made into a pendant to wear every day. I can’t tell how it looks with your new set well enough from the pictures to have an opinion on that.

    Post # 12
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    862 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    If it were me, I would continue to wear the old wedding band with the new rings because that’s the ring you used in your wedding ceremony so it is your actual wedding ring and nothing can ever change that fact.  However, just to warn you, I know that my opinion on this is not a very popular one so you might want to keep that in mind. lol  My own mother does not wear her original wedding band OR engagement ring, and neither do a lot of other people I know.  They upgraded their rings to something better or started wearing anniversary rings instead.  I guess the question you need to ask yourself and your husband is how important it is for you to wear the ring that was actually used in your ceremony.  My husband has made it clear that he would not like if it I switched out either of my rings, but he’s a very sentimental man and that’s one of the things I love about him.

    By the way, since you mentioned that your ring doesn’t sparkle anymore, I was just wondering if you ever had it professionally cleaned?  I honestly don’t have my rings cleaned as often as I probably should, but whenever I do, the transformation is amazing!  They sparkle just like new!

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