- 6 years ago
- Wedding: March 2013
We’ve already changed our wedding date once from March 29, 2013 due to it being Good Friday, my fiance hating the venue, etc. (I was not very good at including him in the planning, but we’ve worked on it and it’s fixed Oh the journey of marriage) We’ve found another venue across the lake from the first one and the day is good. I’ve been able to find a church, neogtiated with the photographer and cake, all for an awesome price!
However, now my brother and sister-in-law are pregnant and due in February 2013. They’ve been trying for two years and through multiple miscarriages, one still birth, and her having a brain tumor, they’re having twins! I’m so excited for them, but now we come to the hard part: they may not be able to come. My brother has taken the role of my dad when he passed away, and she is my mentor. I really want him to walk me down the aisle, and she and I have been anticipating my wedding for as long as I’ve known her. I incredibly value them, but the thought of losing my venue, church, etc is disheartening to me. I know we need to do what’s best for us, but I feel like my thoughts are clouded!