(Closed) Help – Confused who I should have as my MOH

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
11050 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’ve have this same dilemma.

I say go for friend 3.

Post # 4
1937 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I would just not have a Maid/Matron of Honor and just have them all be BMs.

Post # 5
2457 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010


Post # 6
359 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

i would say, judging from your descriptions you are leaning towards Friend 3, go with your gut 🙂

Post # 7
1137 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

If you don’t need a lot of help, or are fine with remote assistance, I’d go with friend 1. Otherwise, friend 3.

My Maid/Matron of Honor lives 8 hours away, and just had her baby. She’s  been super helpful in a long distance sense (sending pictures, getting thoughts, giving me ideas, even offered to do things there and mail it to me). Then again, my only two local bridesmaids are super busy..

Post # 9
834 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Friend number three. She’s able to be there for you more than the others (and I don’t mean it in a bad way). But you brought up some good points. The friends who have a hectic schedule just really don’t need the added stress! The girl from you work seems like she’d be able to help you, but you don’t seem to have known her for as long as #3, and you weren’t Maid/Matron of Honor for her. It’d be a nice “thank you” gesture for #3, if you were to ask her. 

Post # 10
5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Friend 3 I would think. And I think thats who your leaning towards as well. IF the choice in uncomfortable for you.. You dont have to have a Maid/Matron of Honor just throwing that out there.

Post # 12
32 posts
  • Wedding: July 2012

That’s tough… maybe I wouldn’t have a Maid/Matron of Honor at all. I would be afraid it would cause drama with the other girls, especially if you were Maid/Matron of Honor in their weddings.

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