- 5 years ago
Hello bees, bit of a doozy here.
Having a bit of an issue here with a man I used to date.
I dated him briefly about 2 years ago. We dated for about a month casually, however I ultimately decided to end it for several reasons; one of those being the fact that we lived in different states (he lived in california and I live in South Carolina), but also the fact that at times he could come across as a bit desperate and/or creepy in his texting style (HUGE turn off for me).
I eventually moved on and we no longer spoke and he went back to cali and lost touch.
Now fast forward to today. I recently got a text last week from a number I didnt recognize; turns out it’s him and he’s back in town. He texted me asking if I wanted to call and catch up. After a couple of casual texts back and forth i said sure maybe later.
The next day, I got a call out of the blue from a number I didnt recognize; it was him, and we chit chatted about small talk for about 20 minutes.
After our conversation, he sent me a text saying “it was nice to catch up with you again”, and I responded saying the same thing.
THEN he texts back saying “if you want to meet up to talk, or want to just talk on the phone that would be nice too. But theres no pressure at all. Take your time and think about it.I have a feeling you DONT want to meet up with me, and if thats the case I will respect your deicision”.
I felt that response was a little weird, but I didn’t read to much into it and i didnt reply.
THEN…2 days later I get a semi upset-sounding email from him saying:
Okay..I’m really happy you are doing better and things are going well and you probably like the guys you are currently dating. It was nice meeting you and I enjoyed our short time together.Good luck with everything. Your future is bright and you will continue to be successful and make a lot of money and be happy. May all your dreams come true”.