(Closed) HELP! date dilemma

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: will it look bad/create a stir if our wedding is the same day/month of his ex's the following year?
    good gracious lady- DON'T DO IT!! : (1 votes)
    3 %
    people will definetly be talking about that one! : (5 votes)
    14 %
    who even cares? chalk it up to "peak wedding date range" : (31 votes)
    84 %
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    It wouldn’t even hit my radar, go for it!

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    This never would have even crossed my mind!! Do you have a lot of guests who went to this other wedding?

    Post # 5
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I don’t think anyone will notice (except maybe his ex). The date we want is the same as a couple we know (but 2 years later). I felt a little weird at first, like we were “stealing” their anniversary…but they don’t own the date or even the month!

    Post # 7
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    If you avoid that date because it’s “hers,” aren’t you then assigning too much significance to her and her life?  Why should either of you care?  If you go ahead and use that date, it’s because she and her date are not even on your radar.  She is in the past and of no significance to either of you.

    Post # 9
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Your wedding date has nothing to do with her – pick the day that works best for you!

    Post # 10
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    The first date I thought I’d want is actually my aunt and uncle’s anniversary.  I’ve since changed my mind, but originally she told me to go for it. 🙂  People don’t care.  There are only so many days in a year, and I doubt anyone will even notice.

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