- Ms. Kitty
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
We decided not to have a bridal party when we first got engaged. It was mostly me who didn’t want to have attendants because I have a longtime (15+ years) friend that I know would be very hurt if she weren’t selected. However, I didn’t want that friend to be in my wedding because she’s a drama queen. Everything she does is high drama all the time. For example, before my shower, I hadn’t talked to her for about 6 weeks. I’d called a number of times, but she never returned my calls. Then, the day of the shower, she texts me a number of times asking why she wasn’t invited to dinner after the shower and trying to give me a guilt trip about it. I don’t know why she got the idea that I should host her for dinner (I wasn’t having dinner with other guests), but I asked her to please stop with the messages and that there was no dinner, just a shower.
Anyway, Fiance and I planned to invite a few close friends to our rehearsal dinner. This friend was originally on the list for the rehearsal dinner, but I’m so tired of the crazy antics that I’m thinking about not inviting her. Invitations haven’t gone out yet. I’m worried that no matter what I do, the high drama will follow. If I invite her, I’m likely to get 20 calls on that day about what to wear, can she bring a date, will so and so be there, etc. If I don’t invite her, I’ll get the massive guilt trip about how we used to be such good friends. Any suggestions?