(Closed) Help! Did I pick the wrong ring?

posted 4 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
6887 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Go with the one you really love.  If you really love the 3stone one than see if you can get that one. If you really love the pear than keep that.  A bunch of strangers on the internet can’t tell you which ring to get. 

Post # 3
9286 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I mean, none of us can tell you if you picked the “wrong one” — it’s all a matter of your style. Go with your gut.

Post # 4
10577 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

What is your gut telling you? You obviously love the pear solitaire or you wouldn’t have chose it. Always go with your first instinct, as they say that is typically the correct answer.

Post # 5
5548 posts
Bee Keeper

You cannot go wrong with the pear… you’ll see !

Post # 7
429 posts
Helper bee

I love pears.  That was my runner up pick.  I dont know why but I dont care for 3 stones, seems less engagment more band to me.  Can’t wait for pictures.  Also I think you made the right choice since you have always loved pears.  I think you re having doubts because it surprised you so much to fall for another/so different but not necessarily more.

Post # 8
6560 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

I realize that my opinion doesn’t really help you to know if you made the right decision for you, but I love, love, LOVE pears. They are gorgeous, and if I were to choose again, I would probably go with one. I am not as big a fan of three stone rings (though they are still beautiful, of course).

Post # 9
24 posts
  • Wedding: July 2016

I would have picked a solitaire pear over a 3 stone also :)! I think you made a good decision!

Post # 10
1352 posts
Bumble bee

If you chose the pear, it’s probably because that’s what your gut was telling you. If it makes you feel better, tell yourself that you can always get a cheap but pretty Berricle 3-stone to wear once in a while if you want to mix it up! 

Post # 11
6034 posts
Bee Keeper

megan331979:  Like PPs said, you can’t go wrong if you go with your first instinct (or “gut” reaction). It sounds like you love the pear very much, and that you’ve always dreamed of getting a pear. So it seems like you made a good choice, overall. (With that said, the 3-stone would also be a good choice. The important thing is to go with what you love the most and picture yourself wearing.)

Maybe it feels more worrisome to you because your new ring isn’t officially on your finger yet because it’s getting sized. So, your brain is kicking into overdrive and overthinking the whole experience. Once that gorgeous pear is at home on your finger, I bet you will be over the moon and feel more sure that you made the right choice.

Post # 12
3307 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

There’s no right or wrong. It’s all about what looks best on your hand. Personally I am not a fan of 3 stone rings, everyone’s taste is different. 

Post # 13
929 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I have a three stone and also love pears so I would totally feel your pain. I think if you had always wanted a pear then it’s definitely a safe bet to go with it but at the end of the day you really gotta go with what your heart says. If you can’t shake the 3 stone from your mind then maybe you should go exchange it. 

Post # 14
1919 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Gorse Hill, Surrey, UK

sometimes you have to do something that forces your opinion. I like to flip a coin when i get indecisive like this because as soon as I flip it (or mentally flip it) I seem to know which side I want it to land on most. Same thing works if you ask some one else to choose for you, before they even say it you can just about decide which one you are hoping they will go for

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