Help ease my nerves

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
1056 posts
Bumble bee

You need to stop thinking about what your family thinks. Finding a boyfriend so you have someone to drag to family events is not a recipe for happiness. My BFF has been single for over 10 years and we are mid 30’s. Being single is not the scarlet letter.

Go on dates, be yourself, meet new people.

Post # 3
390 posts
Helper bee

My only advice is to date as much as you can – just really push yourself to try and date many guys. What I found was that I was really nervous before dates because I’d have one date in maybe 2/3 months. And then I’d think too much about the guy. 

But once I pushed myself to date more (a date once a week) it became easier and I stressed less. I was also able to quickly identify if the guy was serious/compatible with me/not my type as I met a few guys. 

So I dated more, but I limited the dates to 2 hours – if I liked the guy then we’d go to a second date, if not – it was only two hours (usually meet for a cup of coffee). 

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