(Closed) Help! Engagement Drama!

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

It’s up to you on whether you want to throw her a party, but I wouldn’t just sit back and protest her wedding. To tell you the truth, I wasn’t a huge fan of my Brother-In-Law before my sister married him. Now that I know him better, I know what an awesome guy he is. I would do everything you can to support your sister, because it will forever affect your relationship if you’re don’t.

Post # 4
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2373 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

I’d say be genuinely happy for them, but I wouldn’t go out of my way to throw a party. Divorce happens, but most (not all) people married 3+ times, well, there’s a reason for it. A few of my family members, friends, and in-laws have had more than three marriages and they all have their things. Your sister obviously knows what she’s doing or her soon to be fiance has worked through his issues/has had really bad luck.

Post # 5
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2600 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I don’t see why you would need to throw her a party, but I also wouldn’t say anything to her about him being ‘off’.  Chances are, she’s probably already thought about that (I know I certainly would if my bf was under 30 and on this 4th marriage!).

Maybe he just decided it was time and your engagement gave him a little push.  Who knows. 

I would congratulate her, but wouldn’t feel like I had to throw a party. 

Good luck!!!

Post # 6
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I dont really thinkg you need to do anything in this situation

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