(Closed) Help – everyone is rsvp-ing no for this weekend’s shower!

posted 9 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
440 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Put on a happy face and have a fabulous time with the 7 people who are coming to celebrate you!

Post # 4
188 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

It will be a wonderful shower because you will actually get to spend more time with those that are coming and appreciate the fact they are there for you.

Post # 5
599 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

There were only 11 people at my shower, and it was still fun. I have the same situation as you, all my friends and family live far away (like 6 hour car ride far), so I understood there being so few people. Believe me, it will still be fun!

Post # 6
1022 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

You’ll still have a good time!  And like kellyalvey said, you’ll have more time to spend with those that ARE there!

Post # 7
1956 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

Miss Sunbeam JUST posted about how her shower this weekend only had 10 guests but it was so wonderful and lovely and perfect! You will feel loved and special, no matter how many people attend…I’m sorry your Maid/Matron of Honor is acting less than enthusiastic, hopefully once it gets closer, she’ll change her tune…

Post # 8
2681 posts
Sugar bee

You will still have a good time!  Put on a happy face and try to not let it get to you. Im sure everyone wishes they could be there but there might be stuff preventing them from making it  Doesnt mean they love you any less.  HAVE FUN 🙂

Post # 9
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

The less people there, the more you’ll be able to interact with everyone. My shower is this weekend and it’s one big shower for both families and friends. So we have about 60 invited and probaly 45 showing up. It’s going to be crazy!

Enjoy it and don’t stress about the one’s that can’t be there.

Post # 10
368 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Less people to be uncomfortable in front of while opening presents!

Don’t worry about the people who are missing out, you’re going to have a great time without them! : D

Post # 11
7082 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

ilovecupcakes- I’m sorry that you are getting lots of “no”s, but try not to take it personally.

Of all my friends, only 2 came to the shower… and it was held in the Bay Area where they all live!  The rest were SO’s side of the family and their friends.

But you know what?  It was still a really special day, made all the more special because my mom and sisters drove several hours to come 🙂

Hang in there… You’ll be surprised at what a great day you have!

Post # 13
60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Put on a happy face!  I was really paranoid when people were rsvping no to my bach party… but now 10 people said yes…. it’s your day, enjoy it!  You’ll get to catch up with family and friends, it’ll be awesome.  Have a few glasses =)

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