Post # 1
Ok ladies, I always turn to the hive for moral support and I’m really needing it now. I am super fixated on the fact that I made our first kiss at the wedding awkward ;/ Heres the story.. I was pretty nervous during the whole ceremony because our rehearsal was pretty messed up and the officiant did not seem to be very experience. I kinda forgot when exactly our first kiss was going to happen. When he announced it we did our kiss but fiance started to slip a little tImg which deccaught me off gaurd. He is NOT a fan of PDA and I on the other hand don’t mind a mild case. Anyways, when he did that I pulled away!!!!!! So we did a lingering peck for a few secs and then fiancé went it for the big kiss and I pulled away. People noticed bc my bridesmaids told me when I asked. Today we got the video in and I def quickly pull away. It’s very awkward and I’m so upset about it. He totally just surprised me. I wish we would have talked about the kiss prior. Oh well.. I guess there’s nothing I can do now. Any of you guys have similar stories or kind words? I’m really beating myself up over this. Thanks!
Post # 3
Do Over! (The kiss, not the whole wedding, that would be expensive)
Seriously though, try not to beat yourself up over it. Stuff like that is bound to happen. Focus on the other wonderful memories of the day, and soon you will be able to laugh about it.
Post # 4
Thanks! Im a worrier naturally and the first kiss is something I’ve always though of the fact that I messed it up makes me mad. Oh well.. Theres plenty more to look forward to
Post # 5
- Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House
this is the kind of thing that will be a funny story later! don’t worry about it too much, everyone knows that you love your husband and it’s just a high pressure situation so sometimes things happen. Just try to laugh about it and not make it a sore subject
Post # 6
Awwww I bet it’s not that bad 🙂 But I would totally be feeling the same way because it’s so easy to fixate on something and blow it out of proportion. I think your best bet is to talk to your husband about it and have a good laugh! Nothing diffuses embarrassment like seeing the humour in the situation.
Post # 7
Thanks ladies!! He laughs about it and totally thinks its funny. It’s me giving my own self a hard time. You guys make me feel better. I seriously appreciate it.
Post # 8
I know for a fact I am going to ruin the “first kiss” in our ceremony. There’s no debate about it. I can’t even kiss him properly in front of the cat I get all awkward. Youtube “first kiss fails” and you’ll quickly feel better about it. It’s nothing to worry yourself over – promise 🙂
Post # 9
Awww… I’m the anti-PDA one in our relationship. So, in the photo of our first kiss, you can see that my husband has a vice grip on my upper arms, and I’m just laughing while he’s trying to kiss me.
It’ll be a funny story later, about your little miscommunication 🙂
Post # 10
Nothing could be worse than our first kiss. I’m very self-conscious about PDA, and I pulled out waaaaay early, and you can hear awkward laughter on the wedding video. In fact it’s one of the reasons I don’t let anyone else watch it.
But no one except my husband has ever said anything about it, and I’m sure no one remembers, so why worry?
Post # 11
note to self: practice “first kiss” before wedding day so that Fiance and I are on the same page lol
Post # 12
Own it, cause you can’t change it. No need to feel bad or guilty. I’m sure no one is marinating on it but you.