(Closed) Help!! Feeling guilty about messing up the first kiss.

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
3182 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Do Over!  (The kiss, not the whole wedding, that would be expensive)

Seriously though, try not to beat yourself up over it.  Stuff like that is bound to happen.  Focus on the other wonderful memories of the day, and soon you will be able to laugh about it. 

Post # 5
6221 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

this is the kind of thing that will be a funny story later! don’t worry about it too much, everyone knows that you love your husband and it’s just a high pressure situation so sometimes things happen. Just try to laugh about it and not make it a sore subject

Post # 6
150 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Awwww I bet it’s not that bad 🙂 But I would totally be feeling the same way because it’s so easy to fixate on something and blow it out of proportion. I think your best bet is to talk to your husband about it and have a good laugh! Nothing diffuses embarrassment like seeing the humour in the situation.

Post # 8
508 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I know for a fact I am going to ruin the “first kiss” in our ceremony.  There’s no debate about it.  I can’t even kiss him properly in front of the cat I get all awkward. Youtube “first kiss fails” and you’ll quickly feel better about it.  It’s nothing to worry yourself over – promise 🙂


Post # 9
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Awww… I’m the anti-PDA one in our relationship.  So, in the photo of our first kiss, you can see that my husband has a vice grip on my upper arms, and I’m just laughing while he’s trying to kiss me.

It’ll be a funny story later, about your little miscommunication 🙂

Post # 10
7680 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Nothing could be worse than our first kiss. I’m very self-conscious about PDA, and I pulled out waaaaay early, and you can hear awkward laughter on the wedding video. In fact it’s one of the reasons I don’t let anyone else watch it.

But no one except my husband has ever said anything about it, and I’m sure no one remembers, so why worry?

Post # 11
336 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

note to self: practice “first kiss” before wedding day so that Fiance and I are on the same page lol

Post # 12
1269 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Own it, cause you can’t change it. No need to feel bad or guilty. I’m sure no one is marinating on it but you. 

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