(Closed) HELP! Flower Girl Drama

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
126 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Talk to her mom- she’s the one who knows her daughter best. I’m sure if the couple is good friends of yours, they’ll do what they can to make sure your ceremony is what you want it to be.

Post # 4
484 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Why would she miss her nap if the ceremony isnt until later?  I agree with pp speak to her mom, be up front with your timeline, plans, and concerns. If she doesnt think her daughter can handle it, give her the option to back out…were in the same rut, but I think the kids can get a late nap in and hopefully will be fine (fingers crossed) Our ceremony is at 8pm…

Post # 5
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I would talk to her mom. Maybe they’ll be able to take a nap at a different time so she’ll be ok for your ceremony.

Post # 6
200 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Tell the Mom the situation and your worries. The last thing she wants is to have a screaming unmanagable child and be embarassed when her child has a meltdown. If she is concerned, she’ll let you know, and you can move on from there.

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