(Closed) Help – how do i tell my bridal party

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I had to sit my girls down and be like look!  Just because that’s what you would want at your party doesn’t mean I want it at mine.  You know I hate dancing, getting wasted, and I am a total prude, so there will be none of that under any circumstances.  Fiance and I discussed it and we decided no strippers!  So while there will be penis straws and dirty jokes, there will be no nude people or alcohol.  Just be honest about it.  My friends no how introverted I am so when I pointed out why I didn’t want all they they understood.  If you just tell them how you feel about it then I bet they will hear the message.

Post # 4
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2116 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Just tell them that whilte you appreciate their ideas, you don’t feel comfortable with a big party/stripper night and what you’re prefer to do. If they’re you’re good friends they’ll understand and wont be offended.

Post # 5
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97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

just tell them that you love the fact that they want to go all out for this but you don’t feel comfortable. Tell them you would like somthing simpaler and more like a girls hang out day.

Post # 6
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939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

i’m going to have the same issues with a few of my maids.  2 of them are into the whole bar scene and craziness.  I am not, and neither is my 1 other maid, so i’m hoping she keeps the other two grounded.  But i did tell them, this isn’t about them and what they want, it’s about me and what i want.  my mom had a talk with them as well, haha.  (all my maids are my sisters)

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