Post # 1
Im semi new to WB and i ahve found this website very helpful, anyway i should tell you want im having issues with.
My Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man are trying to organise my hens night and they want to do the stripper and get trashed thing but i have told them a number of times that im not keen on having a stripper. Id be happy to have a few drinks and a girlie day/night including day spa pampering for the girls and maybe a big dinner then either a small night out on the town or sit in and watch movies kind of like a “sleep over”
How do i tell them im not to keen on having a stripper without offending them?
Would appreciate everyones imput..
Post # 3
I had to sit my girls down and be like look! Just because that’s what you would want at your party doesn’t mean I want it at mine. You know I hate dancing, getting wasted, and I am a total prude, so there will be none of that under any circumstances. Fiance and I discussed it and we decided no strippers! So while there will be penis straws and dirty jokes, there will be no nude people or alcohol. Just be honest about it. My friends no how introverted I am so when I pointed out why I didn’t want all they they understood. If you just tell them how you feel about it then I bet they will hear the message.
Post # 4
Just tell them that whilte you appreciate their ideas, you don’t feel comfortable with a big party/stripper night and what you’re prefer to do. If they’re you’re good friends they’ll understand and wont be offended.
Post # 5
just tell them that you love the fact that they want to go all out for this but you don’t feel comfortable. Tell them you would like somthing simpaler and more like a girls hang out day.
Post # 6
i’m going to have the same issues with a few of my maids. 2 of them are into the whole bar scene and craziness. I am not, and neither is my 1 other maid, so i’m hoping she keeps the other two grounded. But i did tell them, this isn’t about them and what they want, it’s about me and what i want. my mom had a talk with them as well, haha. (all my maids are my sisters)