Post # 31
A couple things…first, your wedding a while off. While you are excited and in planning mode, this is not something that is urgent for them.
2nd–why do you need their opinions so much? What about your FI? Your mom or another family member? There’s nothing wrong with getting your friends opinions, but it seems to be adding a lot of stress on you trying to get them.
I think what you have planned for a gift is lovely, especially considering they are getting a free trip too.
Post # 32
I found them on Etsy. There is a set with the bag, robe, and tumbler, all personalized. I will see if I can find the link and post it for you!
It’s no problem. I tuned out after your “lol” Bazinga! lol 😉
Thank y’all very much for your input. I just needed a place to vent. I was just feeling emotional, and overwhelmed. After catching up with one of my girls, and heard what she has going on in her life right now, I feel like a REALLY BIG A-HOLE! Sometimes, things just get so chaotic, you get wrapped up in your own stuff, and forget people are going through stuff just like you. What can ya do?!
Post # 33
I value their opinions that much because they ARE my family. Not by blood, but by choice. I’m in an area where I don’t have my family, my FI’s family is here and while we’re close it’s not the same, so when you’re without your real family, you create another one. My Fiance is out of town working on a major project for our company, and he just doesn’t have time for flowers, and veils, and all the girly stuff that I know deep down inside he could care less about. I’ve just not really had anyone to talk to about it, so it was like a pressure cooker inside of me, wanting to scream out to ANYBODY! 😉 And I word vomitted all over this website, not making a half lick of sense, but I appreciate you reading anyways! 🙂 LOL
Post # 34
FuturemrsJJohnson: https://www.etsy.com/listing/164556139/5-personalized-bride-and-bridesmaids?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=personalized tumbler, and robe&ref=sr_gallery_1
I hope I did that right…?! Anyways, the seller’s name is SweetSouthernCompany. I can’t find the exact one I was looking at, but here is one with the robe and tumbler personalized. They have one with the tote, as well, but I didn’t favorite that, just the company, and the was the quickest one I found, sorry! They have really good deals. There are numerous other sellers on there that have other options/styles, as well. Also, if you google a store called LTDcommodities, they have a black tote with an embroidered letter on a tote for $9.99. It has really great reviews, as far as being well made, and super versatile, only downfall is they only have a handful of letters they use, for that bag anyways. They have lots of “lettered” items for a good price, and “wedding totes” that will come with a tote and flip-flops that say bridesmaid, bride, maid of honor, etc. And they’re all priced really well. I don’t know about quality, but was contemplating it. Then if they toss after the wedding, who cares, right? Good luck with your search and I hope that helps you a little bit!