(Closed) HELP! how to spice up sex life!

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
85 posts
Worker bee

Try something new!  Get him on board first and ask him to pick toys with you, either online or at a shop.  Then try them out together!

Post # 6
173 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m not an adventurous/kinky person really, but here’s what we do that sometimes switches it up a bit (sorry, a bit TMI)




1. sexting 😀 gets you all fired up before you get home 

2. new places – we’ve done it in a few national parks while camping, in the kitchen, on the washing machine, in the car in broad daylight… a little bit of danger 

3. Get a new vibrator or something, and new lingerie every once in a while for special occasions. 

4. Try a new position, or different foreplay. For me I have a limited number of things that make me climax but lots and lots of stuff will get me turned on and halfway there. 

5. Some fun things like blindfolding or having your hands tied up while you get all the attention 🙂 And then switch roles next time. 

When we try new things we don’t really do it that often but even something new once a month just brings a new spark to our chemistry the rest of the time. 

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