Help!! I can't decide on which one to get. (pics)

posted 2 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Which one should I go with?
    Trumpet : (54 votes)
    43 %
    Ballgown : (72 votes)
    57 %
  • Post # 17
    1059 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 1995

    You look amazing in the fitted gown!  

    The ballgown is overpowering you.  The fitted one will also be easier to take with you on the cruise.

    Post # 18
    1103 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    BerniceK :  the bridal buddy is this tulle layer that helps you pee!! It worked like a charm. I didn’t have to have bridesmaids hold my dress up in the stall. I was able to pee solo!! 

    It sounds like a weird thing to celebrate, but my dress was a ball gown, so I was pretty pumped for the bridal buddy! 

    Post # 19
    8267 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    BerniceK :  

    Well I’m normally all for a ballgown, but I vote for that beautiful  vulva dress, only without the belt . Neither of those dresses need or are enhanced  by a belt imho.

    You look great in both , but I see what pps mean by the  ballgown wearing  you a bit, but then again it looks way too  big, so when it fitted it may not have that effect at all. 

    Post # 20
    279 posts
    Helper bee

    Love the ballgown 🙂

    Post # 22
    760 posts
    Busy bee

    I usually go for the ball gowns, but I love the first gown! I vote for the trumpet.

    howdoyoudo :  I think every gown has the potential to look like something else. A lace gown looks like a curtain to some, a gathered satin gown looks like a mummy to others, I really love the first gown and think it’s a work of art.

    Post # 23
    2595 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    keepingitreal8675309 :  Indeed! That’s why it’s so subjective and we don’t receive the same answers when we pose a question.

    Post # 24
    24 posts

    I vote the ballgown because it seems more castle-y… also, I don’t like to wear skirts like the first one but that’s just my personal preference, you look incredible in both gowns! I can see why it’s so hard to choose!

    Post # 25
    2342 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    The trumpet looks like a roll of toilet paper. Not going to lie

    Post # 27
    2093 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    It’s gorgeous!!!

    Post # 29
    402 posts
    Helper bee

     If it came down to these two dresses I would say dress 1 despite the jokes about the flower.  It has a Vera Wang look for sure.  But if I were to give you an honest outside opinion – for whatever reason – unless you like the look both dresses “bottoms” overpower you.  It really looks like the dresses are wearing you It does not give the most flattering look – either of them.  They certainly aren’t terrible as you are slim and that always help but they may not be the most compliemtnary dresses.  they are nice dresses on a very pretty lady but not necessarily the best choice if that makes sense.  But if you think it is yoru best look then defnitely go for either one. As long as you feel beautiful and confident that will sell the dress.

    Post # 30
    665 posts
    Busy bee

    BerniceK :  I see where you are going with liking the mermaid but I think that actual dress is the wrong one. Ask someone who’s seen you in other things but it might make you look bigger than you are. Maybe try one that is slinkier where the fabric lays flatter where the drop comes down lower closer to your knee. I just went through this exercise myself. I wound up wearing “Willow” by Alyne. Try ones with a deeper dip in the neck

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