- 5 years ago
my boyfriend and I are planning on getting engaged, we have been since last may. he acts like he wants to get married to me, we were supposed to get engaged last may the day after i graduated from high school. Yes, we are young but he is the person, he is my meant to be i knew it from the day i first met him. I’ve never believed in love, let alone love at first sight but that is what happened to me I cannot explain it. I just know we were made to be together. anyways, well the day after i graduated from high school he didnt have the money to get the ring. he insisted on getting me the “ring i truly deserve”, honestly i just want to be married to him i dont care about the ring. ohh he is a year younger than me, he is graduating this year. then we are going to the same college, weird enough we had both already planned on going to the sane college before we met each other. well i completely understood the ring thing, though he seriously couldve just tied a rope around my finger. so then we set the engagement date for my upcoming birthday which is on july 20th, then when my birthday came around once again something happened and this time he was able to buy the exact ring i wanted, but he was given the option from the jeweler to get it engraved for free. so he did and well it wasnt done in time for my brithday, therefore it didnt happen. this time it was a little more upsetting but i understood. then he decided that he was going to propose to me on the night before i moved into the dorms and away from him. well, not that far im only about 45 minute away. well about a month before i was to leave he recieved the ring back. it was wrapped up really pretty and he decided to keep it all pretty to give to me. well the day it was suppoed to happen his mom told him he needed to at least look at the rign before he gave it to me. he and his mom then opened it and she pulled it out to look at it because she hadnt see it yet. when she was looking at it se noticed that four of the diamonds from the back had been stolen. they then went up to the jewlery store and they appoligised and sent it back to the manifactuaer to get it fixed. so i was extremely excited because i didnt see anything going wrong and i was devistated. then we set the mark for our one year annivery and the ring was waiting at the shop to be picked up, however for what ever reason they put it under his mom’s name so sh ewould have to be there to get it. well, she couldnt ever make it up there, or so he says but i think he didnt even try because when my boyfriend really wants something he will bugg and bug and plead and do whatever it takes to make sur eit is done. this time i almost just left him, because i felt like either he was lying to me about haveing the ring or the fact that he truly wanted to get married. he swore on our relationship, eyes fulll of tears that that is not true, so i beleved him. its now been two months since our annversy and he has still not gotten the ring. does he just not want to get married or it is just a really bad issues that keep happening. i just want to marry the man i love, but im afread he doesnt feel the same or that i have pushed him to get married. he told me last nigth that he was really nrvous, but i dont know what he would be nervous about. im obviously going to say yes. unless he is nervous to give up his single life……my effing ex just got married too and that is killing me because i want to be married adn everyoone else including my sister are engaged. help i dont know what to think.