- 6 years ago
- Wedding: January 2013
I have been friends with MOH#1 for the past six years. When I got engaged I didn’t think twice about asking her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor. However, since the moment I asked her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor she has been a pain in my ass.
Every single question or opinion is met with resitance from her. My fiance and I are enjoying planning our wedding. Except for the drama that she causes.
I ended up asking one of my bridesmaids to also be a Maid/Matron of Honor to share the responibility with MOH#1, thinking it would help. But it hasn’t. MOH#2 is traveling internationally during the bulk of my wedding planning. Leaving MOH#1 in the drivers seat annoying the crap out of me.
I honestly don’t know what to do. I love my friend but I’m realizing we aren’t on the same page anymore. For the past two years she was in the Peace Corps. Since then I matured into a different place in my life and she has pretty much stayed the same since we met 6 years ago. I still want her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor. I still want to be friend with her. I just want her to be more supportive.
I tried talking to her once but I think maybe she didn’t undertand as nothing has changed.