(Closed) HELP! I'm struggling with not hijacking my shower!

posted 5 years ago in Accessories
Post # 3
714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@jg780806:  I am the exact same. Tofay I wrote my bff a text saying that I would send her a word doc with some ideas/info and then I would stop micromanaging…. she’s so polite she said that I could micromanaage all I want because her and my other gf who’s helping plan haven’t really done this kind of thing before. My only issue is that I want to be pleasently surprised by some things and I don’t want to be rushing around making sure everyone has food etc on the day of – that’s their job. So my only advice is to compile a document of things, then hand it over and shut the door.

Post # 4
39 posts
  • Wedding: November 2013

My situation is kind of the opposite, but still similar. My Maid/Matron of Honor actually asked me for ideas. I think I’m just going to hand her a sort of brainstorming sheet I wrote up, with half a dozen options, and let her go from there. That way, it’ll still be up to her what specifically we do, but she has some place to start. I’m trying to limit it to a single piece of paper from a small notebook.

Post # 5
61 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

lmao! I am in the same spot as Op and the 1st poster!  Ive came up with every idea, ill be making the cake (im a baker) and the fillings for my DIY crepe bar brunch.  I have my word doc made up of food, drinks, favors, prizes, games & decor. Im sendig it to the Maid/Matron of Honor & Im done! I LOVE throwing parties so its really hard to not have my hands in everything.  BUT my babysitter isnt comig until the party starts so I will arrive a couple minutes late (party is a mile away) so no prep no setting up.  Im going to try my best to be a guest!

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