(Closed) Help – Invites with Registry Info? Do it or Taboo?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Do you put registry information in the same envelope as your invites?
    Yes, It's okay you registered late and everyone is from out of town. : (5 votes)
    17 %
    No, Tacky is tacky. : (19 votes)
    63 %
    Put it only in the envelopes of those who asked. : (6 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
    11167 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper

    As a guest I don’t care for it and as a bride I didn’t do it. We are attending a wedding in early March and have recieved in three seperate mailings the registry information…enough is enough.

    Etiquette is loosely interpreted these days so it is really up to you. I would suggest indicating your wedding website instead (perhaps as an included card) and put your registry details on the website instead.


    Post # 4
    1427 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I’d recommend against it; traditionally etiquette is against it and with the internet nowadays, it’s really easy to find where a couple is registered at. If the moms/aunts wnat to; they can spread the word on where you are registered at.


    Post # 5
    955 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Actually, I kinda see their point in this instance.  If Mom is insisting that you do it, then go ahead and do it.


    But then, I don’t live my life by the etiquette rules, sometimes real life means you have to make an exception.

    Post # 6
    1839 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    what we did was put our wedding website on our save the dates and then put our registry info on there.

    also people who want to know will just ask; i personally still wouldnt put registry info in with my invites.

    Post # 7
    2295 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Wouldn’t do it if they paid me $1000 bucks. They want to know? Oh look, I can just tell them verbally!

    We have ours on our website (on a separate tab that isn’t “in your face”). That was as far as I was willing to go.

    Post # 8
    3720 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I wouldn’t do it, if people want to know where you are registered, they will google ypur names and your registry will pop up.

    Post # 9
    20 posts
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Doesn’t registry info usually come with the shower invite?

    Post # 10
    1106 posts
    Bumble bee

    I prefer it because otherwise I have NO IDEA what they need/want!

    Post # 11
    2324 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I’d also be happy to recieve the info. saves me from contactign someone else when the info could be right there…

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