(Closed) Help! Inviting co-workers? Fi is inviting his, but he’s been at his job longer

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
4046 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would probably not invite them, for the reasons you listed. If you do end up getting invited to the boss’s wedding, just say you already have plans over thanksgiving weekend. Many people do and that’s the downside of getting married over a holiday.

Post # 4
2305 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Dont invite someone simply because you feel obligated to.  You are also not obligated to invite him because he’s your boss. He’s not going to fire you because you don’t invite him to your wedding, and if he does then I don’t think you’d want toe b there anyways lol.


Post # 5
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Personally I would not invite them. Sometimes these types of situation are all or nothing, either invite all the people you work with or invite none of them.

If I were in your shoes I would not invite them, but only you know whether or not you can invite some and not all. However, inviting some does get tricky if you do leave the boss out. 

Post # 6
915 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I had a couple of these situations come up and I always said to myself “would I keep talking to this person or carry on a relationship if we didn’t work together”…. I wanted to invite people I thought I would be friends with for awhile. 

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