- 3 years ago
I need your advice. I’m shaking. My boyfriend and I live together and everything has been amazing. Til today, I trusted him a 100%. I never snooped and I never felt like I had to- He always had his phone lie around everyhwere, never took it to the bathroom and even gave me the password for his computer.
He travels a lot for work, and last night they changed his schedule- They do that quite often, and I know he isn’t lying about it because I also have the login to his intranet (he gave it to me so I can always be updated about his work schedule). Anyways, last night he told me he’d arrive at the airport at midnight (the city where he’s from, where he grew up, about an hour flight from here) and would go straight to the hotel (which is next to the airport). When he landed at midnight, I was still awake so we talked shortly on messenger and he told me that he’s super tired and will go straight to bed. This morning, I didn’t hear of him, which is really unusual- He always gets up early and the first thing he does is message me. I didn’t hear anything, and I waited til 12.30pm before I got really worried. I called his Mom to ask if she has heard of him (she lives in that city too, and the day before he told me he’d go visit her), and she said no, nothing. She got worried too, so she called the hotel. She then got back to me saying that my boyfriend answered the phone, but that he was super sleepy so they didn’t really talk. I don’t know, alarm bells went off in my head. This is not usual for him.
I logged into his email account on his computer (wel, not logged in, it’s always opened anyways). There I saw it- Two messages from Uber. One at 1am, going from his hotel next to the airport to an address in the city. I looked for the address on Google Maps, and didn’t really get any result. Google maps is a bit messed up where we live, sometimes it gets stuff wrong, so I also checked Google street view. There are apartment buildings, but also a few restaurants and bars around, so I can’t tell where exactly he was going to. It’s possible that it was one of the bars or restaurants, but who knows. What I know for a fact is that bars and restaurants here close at 2am, and he took an Uber back to the hotel at 3am (getting there 15min later).
I don’t know what to think. I did not expect this. I mean it was Saturday night, if he told me before ‘Hey some friends are at place X and I’m going to meet them for a drink’ it wouldn’t have been any problem obviously. But he said he was tired. Last thing he told me was when he just got to the hotel, 15 min before he took an Uber. He said he was going to bed soon.
Girls, what should I do? It’s 1.30pm now and his phone is still switched off. I know he is in his hotel (according to his Mom and the Uber bill) but who knows if he’s alone? Who knows what he did last night? Why would he lie to me and say he would go to bed? Please, I need advice. I’m going crazy here.