Post # 1
I’ve noticed since we got married he’s been a little more complacent. For some reason he thinks it’s ok to wipe boogers on our bathtub wall (most days he just leaves them and they begin to build up) or flick them wherever. Last time I found one on a piece of wall decor above our couch. Leaving skidmarks on the toilet seat, clothes on the bathroom floor (right next to the hamper) and leaving messes in the kitchen after I cleaned everything. Talk about getting angry.
We’ve talked about it a few times before and I always feel like I have to tip toe around saying anything because he gets so butthurt when I even I say anything. I’ve told him I need help cleaning and want him to just pick up after himself, no major cleaning required and to use tp instead of wiping snot on my bathtub. He said ok and still nothing changes. Last time I talked to him he said he was trying but how many more times do I need to bring it up before feeling like I’m just being disrespected and neglected. I love him, I REALLY do but idk how much more I can take of this and don’t know what to say to him anymore about it.
ps: this is also a part of the reason why I don’t want kids! He’s just one more child to look after right now
Post # 2
aw838642 : That is just gross and immature. That is something my 8 yr old does with boogers. WTF. I would not be tip toeing around this one. I don’t with my kid on it. I would tell him straight out that is gross and disgusting and he is acting like a immature child. And to straight up either start acting like an adult or get out. That is something I would not deal with an adult.
Post # 3
He… flicks boogers around the house…? This is real?
Post # 4
I can hardly stop gagging long enough to post… I couldn’t live in the same house with that.
Post # 6
Erm ,nope! I’d be telling him straight that is not OK and is unattractive. If he gets butthurt so be it.
Was he like this before? If so, I’m afraid ubwont change him!
Post # 7
I don’t understand how poo could get on the toilet seat???
Post # 8
This is so gross I would never marry a man like this.
Post # 9
- Wedding: April 2017 - City, State
I would tell him he needs to get his act together or he will need to relocate to a hotel, because you will not put up with living in those conditions. That’s disgusting and there is no reason you should be living in those conditions. He needs to take this seriously, regardless of if it hurts his feelings.
Post # 11
You guys know better than to feed them… closing.