(Closed) HELP! Maid of Honor Dilemma

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What should I tell my friend about the MOH role?
    Explain that I think she has too much going on in her life, and that she can be a BM : (10 votes)
    91 %
    Not follow my gut instinct and keep her as the MOH to keep my word, even though I feel it's risky : (1 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    9139 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

    How about you ask her what’s up?  Tell her everything you have said above and ask her if she still wants to be your Maid/Matron of Honor and that if it’s too much, then this is the chance to step back.  If she apologizes and wants to get involved give her a few specific tasks and let her know that if doesn’t follow through then it’s clear she doesn’t want the additional responsibilities that come with being an Maid/Matron of Honor.

    Post # 5
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    4439 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

    @10-5-13-bride:  I think you have an opening to discuss this given her out of state internship.  Just be blunt and tell her that her actions suggest she’s not interested in being Maid/Matron of Honor and that’s fine, you just need to know sooner rather than later.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1030 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    You will be looking back at the pictures from you wedding and thinking back to these memories for a long time. You would have every right not to have her in your bridal party, let alone be a Maid/Matron of Honor. However, with that said, it sounds like you have a long frienshship and it might just be best to say that your sister is important to you and you really want her as your Maid/Matron of Honor and since the other friend has an internship that is far away, you feel like it is best if they switched roles. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    25 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Absolutely DROP that MOH!! She is being a b**ch.

    Excuse my language but I do not understand how people can be so selfsish and obnoxious.  She has issues.  Sounds to me like she is super jealous of you or doesn’t really care for you.

    Be honest and blunt, this is YOUR wedding day and it should be enjoyable.  I’m sorry you are going though this.  Replace her with your sister ASAP and tell this Maid/Matron of Honor that since she’s shown no interest in your wedding whatsoever you feel that it’s best for both of you that she not longer holds that responsability.

    Both of you should be relieved after that…

    Good luck and please let us know how things work out for you.  🙂

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