(Closed) HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Would you want to know if it is an engagement ring?
    DUH! Of course! : (17 votes)
    25 %
    No I will just suffer in silence! : (44 votes)
    65 %
    I don't know what I would do! : (7 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1177 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I would want to know, of course, but I don’t think I would ask my friend to snoop in his account. That’s over the line.

    Post # 4
    Member
    6745 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Let him surprise you.

    Post # 5
    Member
    337 posts
    Helper bee

    Difficult!!!  Good luck!!  Keep us informed!!

     

    Post # 7
    Member
    540 posts
    Busy bee

    Don’t ruin the surprise for yourself.  You might be disappointed. It could be a birthday gift for you like earrings or something. He could be working his way onto the jewelry scene.

    Post # 9
    Hostess
    2556 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I’m pretty much a sucker for punishment, so I would probably want to know and then hate myself for knowing.

    Post # 11
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    2573 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    While I agree that it is SUPER tempting to have your friend look at what was bought, I wouldn’t. Think of it this way: If it’s earrings or necklace or something that is not an engagement ring, you may have a hard time hiding your disappointment from the SO. And the opposite is true should it in fact, be an engagement ring. You are better off being genuinely surprised when he gives it to you. Hey – be happy something is coming! You just don’t know what yet. Innocent

    Post # 12
    Member
    1541 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    don’t do it!

    Post # 13
    Member
    8424 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Don’t be a snoop….. Be patient and wait!! It’ll come soon if he only has 1 payment left!! 

    Post # 15
    Member
    1404 posts
    Bumble bee

    Don’t. Do. It.  It will be much better if you don’t know.  THink about it.  Do you want to reminisce about the surprise or how you snooped and knew about it?

    Post # 16
    Member
    924 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    Sounds promising!!! 

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