Post # 1
Bees, Bees, Bees…
I am stuck and I just need to vent/get some advice/ and get this off my chest all at once. So I was over my SO’s house and I was looking for a DVD to borrow. When I went to move some items on top of the DVDs I found a Kay Jewelers Account Payment Slip. I couldn’t help myself, I had to look at it… wouldn’t you? I now know his customer number but I am actually thankful the paper did not say what he was paying on just what his credit limit was and that this was to be his LAST payment.
Lets pause for a quick back story…
We have been together for 2 years and like any other coupld ewe have had our ups and our downs. However since out 2 year anniversary we have kinda been a stand still because our relationship hasn’t really been going anywhere. He knows I am ready to become engaged and would like to be married by July 2014, and we have even talked about the wedding in detail. But I am scared that he is just not ready to commit and is scared to say so.
I have a friend who works for Kay Jewelers and she said he can see what he ordered. I don’t want to know what he ordered but I would like to know if it is an engagement ring or not. Am I wrong? I don’t know what to do and the fact that I can’t change the fact that I have now seen this paper is now eating me alive.
Post # 3
I would want to know, of course, but I don’t think I would ask my friend to snoop in his account. That’s over the line.
Post # 5
Difficult!!! Good luck!! Keep us informed!!
Post # 6
@geekspice: I am leading towards it. She offered but I told her no, I am good. I think I mainly just posted this to get it off my chest and to make sure there are people in the world who may be going through the same thing and see how they would react.
Post # 7
Don’t ruin the surprise for yourself. You might be disappointed. It could be a birthday gift for you like earrings or something. He could be working his way onto the jewelry scene.
Post # 8
I think I am going to wait and just keep myself busy on wedding bee… I just hopes it happens soon!
Post # 9
I’m pretty much a sucker for punishment, so I would probably want to know and then hate myself for knowing.
Post # 10
@MsAmandaAnn: That is were I am now. I know the credit limit cost and I want to go to the website and look for things around that price. But once I know I can’t go back and I will feel so guilty and even worse what if I don’t like it?
Post # 11
While I agree that it is SUPER tempting to have your friend look at what was bought, I wouldn’t. Think of it this way: If it’s earrings or necklace or something that is not an engagement ring, you may have a hard time hiding your disappointment from the SO. And the opposite is true should it in fact, be an engagement ring. You are better off being genuinely surprised when he gives it to you. Hey – be happy something is coming! You just don’t know what yet.
Post # 13
Don’t be a snoop….. Be patient and wait!! It’ll come soon if he only has 1 payment left!!
Post # 14
@Waitingforthatdaywithray: keep waiting! Don’t ruin your surprise!!! I know it’s HARD buy you can do it!
Post # 15
Don’t. Do. It. It will be much better if you don’t know. THink about it. Do you want to reminisce about the surprise or how you snooped and knew about it?