(Closed) Help me choose my BM’s

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
13251 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wouldn’t feel obligated to pick #7 just because you will likely pick #4.  You should pick the people you are close to, and those who you reall ywant standing beside you on one of the most important days of your life.  Don’t lose sight of the fact that this is your wedding and you should do what makes you happiest.

Could you ask #4 to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man, and maybe include #7 as a reader or some other important task?  Include her somehow, but don’t have her as a bridesmaid just out of obligation….

Post # 4
155 posts
Blushing bee

I would agree with the PP and include #7 as a reader/MC – something so she feels included and not just as a guest.

Post # 5
359 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I agree with the other two posts! 🙂

Post # 6
193 posts
Blushing bee

@Jamieg:  I agree with the previous posts aswell. Dont feel obliged.

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