Help me choose my wedding dress!

posted 6 months ago in Dress
  • poll: Which dress do you like better?
    Dress 1 : (58 votes)
    61 %
    Dress 2 : (25 votes)
    26 %
    Neither : (12 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 2
    102 posts
    Blushing bee

    Not much help but you look amazing in both. I genuinely couldn’t pick! I love both dresses!

    Post # 3
    746 posts
    Busy bee

    cisforcaroline :  I like the more delicate lace of the second dress, however, I suspect it would look better without a belt. The belt breaks things up too much for my liking.

    You look amazing in both dresses… can’t go wrong!

    Post # 4
    4351 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    cisforcaroline :  I think both dresses are very flattering on you but I’d personally never do dresses with just lace appliqué and no lining on the bodice, if elegant and timeless are your objective. Strategically placed lace to cover bits and play peakaboo with other bits will never be timeless. If anything it will age and date your dress to this period where skin showing is big in wedding dress design.

    I’d personally pick dress one and line the front. The back is fine left unlined whilst still playing at a little fun and sexy but still traditional and timeless. 

    Post # 5
    77 posts
    Worker bee

    I think a timeless dress should have a lining at the front. I would even go as far as to say timeless dress would have sleeves of some sort, or at the very least a higher (e.g boat) neckline, not a sleeveless V.

    You still loving it years down the road is a possibility, but it looking like a proper, timeless dress in decades to come is doubtful. Plus if you can’t choose, it’s very probable that you don’t have strong feelings about either one, so how is it possible to love something that internet strangers chose for you 10 years down the road?

    Post # 6
    143 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2019

    I don’t think either style is timeless, that type of lace and the sheer top as others have said is pretty trendy. That said that doesn’t mean you won’t still love it in 10 years. I also agree with what a couple other people have said, of you’re that torn maybe neither is the dress for you.

    Post # 7
    3863 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2017

    I think dress one has a more beautiful train and a nicer shape in the front and back neckline. For me it would be perfect if the front of the bodice was lined as I don’t love the look of the lining ending at the waist, although I know it’s very ‘in’!

    Post # 8
    9 posts
    • Wedding: December 2018

    I voted for dress one. I like the shape of the dress and the bottom more than the 2nd dress. I think if you are going for timeless line the front but u can still keep back unlined. Its beautiful dress n u look great in both!

    Post # 9
    3833 posts
    Honey bee

    No. 1 has more wow factor.It’s swoonworthy.

    Post # 10
    5548 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2016

    Both of them are gorgeous on you and I don’t think you could go wrong with either. 

    In terms of your hope for your wedding to be timeles, I think you should let that go and just choose something that you absolutely love and feel beautiful in.

    Check out this article.

    Your Wedding Is Not Timeless

    Even Carolyn Bessett Kennedy’s dress is very much indicative of a specific time and place that she got married although the style has held up well.

    Post # 11
    236 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2020 - Round Rock, TX

    cmsgirl :  agreed! I think dress 1 would be gorgeous with lining in the front, but leaving the back as is!

    Post # 12
    284 posts
    Helper bee

    Keep looking! 

    Post # 13
    130 posts
    Blushing bee

    I am in love with dress 1 and it looks gorgeous on you. I would definitely pick this one! I wouldn’t worry that much about being timeless, as like the others say, nothing is truly timeless. Sleeves are back now but to my mum, they are very dated. I don’t think you can truly win on that front, just pick the dress you love!

    Post # 14
    437 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2019 - A historic Art Deco and French Renaissance Theatre

    You look beautiful in Both bee! I do love the back of dress 1 but neither dress really says WOW to me.

    Post # 15
    2560 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    Dress 1 is literally breathtaking. If you are looking for timeless I think the horsehair skirt on dress 2 is going to look very 2018 in the years to come. 

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