Help me decide on wedding jewelry!! I LOVE them both.

posted 6 months ago in Accessories
Post # 2
1273 posts
Bumble bee

I’d go with the top. The bottom are a statement, but they may overpower u our photos and up up being dated when you look back as the style is more fashion /costume. I’d stay classic. 

Post # 3
930 posts
Busy bee

daliah12 :  bottom photo for sure. Especially if your lipstick/nails are red or bright may contrast with the different shade of red on earrings. 



Post # 4
373 posts
Helper bee

Bottom definately. If you add more red touches, it will scream more winter time wedding.

Post # 5
405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2019 - York, ME

I’d go for the top pair, they are unbelievably gorgeous! I would love seeing pictures of those for years to come. The gold earrings remind me of costume jewelry but maybe if we had a size reference that would change. They look totally large and overpowering in the photo.

Post # 6
890 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2019

Is it an option to do top for the ceremony and bottom for the reception? I wore smaller jewelry for a more understated and classic ceremony look, then took off my lace jacket and added major statement bling for the reception and it was fun! It felt like I had two looks…. but only paid for one! (It was all inherited jewelry)

if you have to pick one, go top for sure!

Post # 7
1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2020

I vote the top set 😍

Post # 8
647 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Maybe seeing the dress may help people decide..?
Without seeing the dress, I would go with the gold because you said you have yellow gold rings.  Also – I find the top set to be quite casual and indian boho – they look like cheap market style jewellery to me and I know you said they arent cheap – thats how they look to me.
Maybe a plain diamond (or CZ) large stud would suit? But would need to see the dress to be sure…

Post # 9
105 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 1995

Of the two choices, I’d go for the top.

The bottom earrings look more like costume jewelry even though they are gold. Maybe they are smaller than they appear in the photo, but they do look rather large.  Depending how big they are, twenty years from now when you look at your photos you might wish you had something more classic. 

I do love them however! I was in high school/college in the 80s and early 90s and we all used to wear earrings that looked like these. 

Post # 12
4791 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

Top for sure. The gold earrings look like they’re 80s clip ons. Don’t kill me!

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