(Closed) Help me feel better about my wedding anxiety!!!! What if its just mediocre?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

As long as you stay true to yourself and your Fiance and select the things that you guys really want, your wedding will be amazing. Don’t compare your wedding with those of other people and don’t let a fear of other people’s opinions dictate what you decide. Go with your hearts and choose elements that represent the two of you and reflect your love.

Post # 4
1303 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Im the same way.  Everyday I complain to my Fiance about my fear of my wedding being wack and people just sitting there.

The rational part of me knows:

1. people who are coming to your wedding LOVE YOU; they will have fun b/c of this and the fact that they are celebrating in your love.  When we were considering eloping I had people begging us to have a wedding, any kind of wedding so that they could see us get married.  They didn’t care if it was in a hut somewhere; they just wanted to be there.

2. You need to sell your wedding, so to speak.  People can smell fear and if you think your wedding is medicre, so will they.  So on the day off make sure to smile, have fun, dance!, engage with people, and interact lovingly with your Fiance even if you feel anxious on the inside.  Fake it till you make it.  People will only get more anxious if they see you the same way.  Believe that your wedding is awesome and people will be so happy to bask in your joy.


Good luck, your venue is beautiful and 95% of people will ooh and aah over an invitation for 2 seconds before putting it in their kitchen drawer.  Dont worry!

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