Post # 1
My FH and I have discussed our wedding plans and agree on most everything so far. The one thing he will not allow is for me to have male “bridesmaida”.
I grew up with 2 guys who are like brothers to me. They mean the world to me and I want them to be a part of my big day, but my FH is not okay with me putting them in my bridal party. But adding the guys to the end of the line as his groomsmen just seems so unfitting for how important these guys are to me.
Any ideas as to how to make the guys a part of my special day and keep my fiancé happy?
Post # 2
They could do a reading, be ushers, do a joint toast to the bride or share MC duties.
Post # 3
Maybe they could marry you? I have two close friends performing the ceremony
Post # 4
As other bees posted there are options, it kind of stinks your Fiance won’t let them in your bridal parth though.
However if one of them is good/enjoys public speaking they could officiate the wedding. My brother was not able to have my SO as a groomsmen so he asked him to marry them instead.
Then the other friend could be an usher, or do a special reading (or both!)