- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
So, I had a bizarre dream last night. It’s not uncommon for me to have dreams about exes – I had two significant others in my life before meeting my SO, and they both were very important to me but didn’t work out for various reasons. Let me state right out that I am definitely not in love with either of them and am THRILLED that I am marrying my Dear Fiance. The others pale in comparison to how awesome he is! 🙂
However, as I said, I do have occasional dreams about both of these guys. With the one ex, let’s call him ‘R’, I am often dreaming that I am looking for him in a crowd or crowded event. Then I typically find him and we have a big hug. (I’ve had this dream at least twice)
I dream about the other ex, ‘D’, less often, but they are a bit more vivid. D and I dated for 5 years and we both thought it was going towards marriage, but we ended it when it got to the point of having to decide whether to go that step or not. Anyway, last night I had a crazy dream where somehow we ended up rendez-vousing to a private bathroom somewhere and, er, started to get it on. It was super passionate (as our relationship always was), but just as things were about to get going I broke it off and told him “I can’t do this!” and ran out, thinking of my Dear Fiance.
WOW! What a whirlwind. I’ve read that dreaming about an ex can happen as you are entering into a new relationship, as you are trying to work out all the issues from your past. I think this could be the case, since we recently got engaged (marriage is definitely a new kind of relationship for us!). But, I am interested to hear other’s thoughts. I’m fascinated by this subconscious kinda stuff!