- 4 years ago
- Wedding: June 2017
Why are there no pictures? Because if I put pictures I already know which one 90% of you will choose. One of the dresses is by a designer that seems to be one of the bee’s favorites 🙂 I want your advice based off how I feel about them. Promise I’ll post pics later. Some of you may have already seen the dresses from different posts of mine.
The backstory. My mom took me to DB and I put on a dress I never expected to like, that looks nothing like what I wanted, and it made me cry like how I hear you’re supposed to when it’s the one. I have tried it on 4 times since and had the same reaction every time. It’s comfy and I want to twirl and swirl in it. It’s fun. It is not everyones cup of tea. It’s not really the grooms cup of tea (I actually gave up and showed him a pic of me in it) but he does love the top and wants me to get whatever I love.
I decided to try on others since I never got a chance to try on what I originally thought I wanted at DB (they don’t carry that style really). I found the romanatic, sexy, blush, timeless dress I was looking for! Everyone that sees it thinks it’s stunning. It’s everything I wanted. They can even make a matching bolero like I wanted for the ceremony. I feel beautiful in it and I know everyone, including the groom will love it.
I’m so torn and I have 7 days to decide (long story). I’m ready to just flip a coin. It’s a win win since I love them both.
So what say the bees? Dress 1 or 2 based on feelings alone. (If it’s listed on these lists that means it’s very important to me including what other people think of it).
I look skinny (It looks great on me even at my current weight)
I love it
I cry everytime I see myself in it or talk about it
I can dance in it
I feel like a bride
I feel beautiful
Max can hide under it (Max is my 4 year old love it and that’s his only dress request lol)
It’s not my style or what I wanted
Other people don’t like it
Fiance prefers trumpet silloettes and doesn’t like an element of the dress
It’s not blush, romantic, or sweet
Can’t see my nice butt
It’s a little dated/ not classic
It feels a little “young for me”
I don’t get the reaction I want from people about it!
It’s everything I wanted and envisioned in a dress
It’s blush, romantic, and gorgeous
I love it
It fits the overall vibe I’m going for with the wedding
Everyone I show it to thinks it’s stunning
Fiance will love the silloette
The back of it is to die for
It feels age apporpiate
It’s not as flattering as the other dress
I can’t dance or sit as well in it
I don’t cry in it
I need to lose a little weight to pull it off comfortably
It may show a little more clevage than Fiance or I would like (this may be fixable)
It’s not as comfortable as the other dress