(Closed) Help me pick my ering!

posted 7 years ago in Rings
  • poll: What ring to pick




  • Post # 3
    9830 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    I would go for the 4mm wide one πŸ™‚

    Post # 4
    302 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2017

    The center diamond should look just fine in either. There’s definitely not much you can do to make a center stone of that size appear small. 

    Post # 5
    2868 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    5mm is much too wide for me.  I like the 4mm

    Post # 6
    1128 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @Whitelight:  Welcome to the Hive! I picked the 4mm one, but not because the stone looks bigger or anything, it looks fine on both, but I liked the look of the 4mm one more πŸ™‚

    Post # 7
    133 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    5mm is much to wide for my taste as well and I feel like it looks more dated. I would go with the 4mm it looks so much classier to me! 

    Post # 8
    543 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    First of all I love Zoara…we didn’t buy my ring there..but we were considering it…To my taste both rings you picked are too wide..I wouldn’t go with more than 3 mm…but from those two I would pick a 4mm one…

    Post # 12
    3571 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I like the 5mm, but how thick would you want your wedding band? and would you have one extra band or two? I think 2 would be too much, personally. 

    Post # 14
    9950 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012


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    @Whitelight:  First and foremost, as this is your DEBUT post on WBee… a BIG Welcome to “the Hive”


    As I am a strong believe that it is ALWAYS best to try on rings (more so if you have a particular one in mind)… cause what you see in a picture isn’t going to quite the same IRL

    And just like buying clothes on line or out of a catalogue… what you see, and what you see in person can be 2 very different things… not every article of clothing (or style of ring) is going to fit / suit every woman.  Everyone’s hands are different etc.

    So ya, you really have to GO LOOK & SEE FOR YOURSELF

    That said, I guess you are asking also about band size etc.

    Measure the distance from the base of your Ring Finger to the first knuckle (bent)… that will give you a general idea of how much room you truly have that accommodate a ring(s)

    I have very short stubby fingers (almost childlike) and I only have 3/4 of a inch (19 mm) of space.

    BUT I still manage to rock a lot of Jewellery in that short span.

    My ERing faces up at 10 mm, and down at 4 mm… My Sparkly WBand is an Eternity Band at about 2-1/2 mm (and my Plain WBand is also 2-1/2 mm)

    On average I wear my 2 Sparklies together (10 mm + 2-1/2 mm = 12.5 mm for the Topside) -OR- (4 mm + 2-1/2 mm = 6.5 mm for the Bottomside)

    The rare occasions when I wear all three, then you have to add on another 2-1/2 mm all around… so (12.5 + 2.5 = 15 mm for the Topside) -AND- (6.5 + 2.5 = 9 mm for the Bottomside)

    And now for some Ring porn…

    PHOTO # 1 – All 3 Rings on my Wedding Day

    PHOTO # 2 – The 2 Sparklies together

    By The Way… My Feature Stone is 0.80 Carats, and I wear a Size 7 Ring

    Hope this helps,


    Post # 16
    5398 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I voted neither because 4-5 mm is really wide IMO. I much prefer daintier rings, like 2-3 mm for the shank. Full disclaimer: my fingers are really short. 

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