(Closed) Help me Please…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Fist of all take a deep breath…… It’s all gonna be fine!! I think all brides have your same fears. I know it may sound silly but have you thought about practicing some type meditation activities to calm your nerves? If you really get that worked up something to think about! 

I thought I was going to be a sobbing mess but I only got choked up once the entire time and I just took a second to catch my breath and start back….. It was during vows. 

Another thing I suggest is practicing your vows….. Get very familiar with them! You will be very nervous on the day so you’ll want to be familiar with them. Good luck!!!

Post # 5
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130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Just keep telling yourself that it’s only one day! If something does go wrong, people will still forget about it in lieu of all of the positive events that occur. 

Post # 6
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451 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Deep breath.. this is normal.. I am typically an emotional person and what one of my best friends and BM’s told me was when you feel yourself start to break down pinch the skin on your hand between your thumb and your pointer finger.. it will distract you enough not to but out in the crazy ugly crying tears… it worked on my wedding day!

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@mariegerbasi:  There are self meditating activities you can practice online…just google it…..but seriously remember to just have FUN that day…..even if you do cry….shake it oof and learn to laugh at yourself. It’s a day to just be yourself and most importantly have FUN!!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@mariegerbasi:  While I was reading my vows I felt the waterworks coming.. I used the pinch method and it actually stopped me.. the only time I even started to tear up was when I was doing bridal shots and my DHs aunt and grandmother came in the room saw me and started to cry.. other I was good!

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