Post # 17
yes! I should also work in some things for next year… But when I think about next year I think about how awesome the maternity leave would be… I have tons if time saved up and could stay home from my due date ( if I get ku now) Til August! Ugh not productive. I’m patient but not with this. I had a cp last month and I just want this so much. I just have a good (yet scared out ofy mind)feeling. Need to remember finding out early last month was not a good thing. Luckily dh is off next few days and he will keep me busy!
Post # 18
I don’t mean to be a Negative Nancy but maybe thinking about it this way will help you to wait. A high percentage of miscarriages are chemical pregnancies. Most women don’t even realize that they are pregnant and just think they are having a normal period. BUT if you are testing early, before AF is due, you might get that faint line and think that you are pregnant, only to be VERY disappointed when AF arrives not long after your BFP. If you wait until AF is late, it’s less likely to be chemical, of course there’s still a chance but definitely less of one. I’ve just seen it happen here on the Bee too many times and it breaks my heart every time. I know this is a sad way to think about it, but it just might be what you need to keep you from testing early!
Just read what @mrsc630:
said, and although sad, this is just what I mean. Sorry for your loss and I hope you get your sticky baby soon!!!
Post # 19
Yeh, I ended up giving in this morning and tested. BFN. Now I’m cramping and just blah. It sucks, but I’m going away for the night, so I figured I should test just to be sure 🙁
Oh jeez, that IS an issue. I hope next month comes together for you. I honestly hate it all already and I just started. I’m kind of thinking about not even coming on the boards next month. It seems to make it worse :/
I had a good feeling last month AND this month, and both times. Nada. I tested this morning and it was BFN, and now I’m cramping. I’m so over all of this already.
You’re totally right, that’s what I was avoding testing. I tested this morning and it was BFN. I’m done with all of that until I’m actually 4-5 days late. It’s all so stupid and stressful, and I get way too caught up in all of it.
Post # 20
@Peffy Here’s the worse, today I don’t even know if it is my cycle…it acted like it was here last ngt and then it’s gone again today, nothing really there…cramping moody as all get out today and tired…I don’t know what the heck is going on.
Post # 21
haha I know it! AF isn’t scheduled to show her face until mid next week. I hate not knowing and going out to a winery. Tempting to just POAS before heading out the door. Will be upset if it’s another BFN. I’ve been working on lectures for classes I’m teaching but I can’t get it out of my mind. What is wrong with me?
Post # 22
that happened to me last month. I start spotting VERY lightly from Sunday-Tuesday, then she arrived fullblown. It was SO not fun. it wosre than I normally deal with.
It’s this whole process. I swear to you, it takes over your mind! I need to work on lessons for next year, and I just can’t focus. I find myself analyzing my chart, finding other charts (pregnancy ones, of course) like mine…and then looking at EVERY SINGLE DETAIL. It’s absolute madness. I wouldn’t test if you’re still 5-7 days away. You’ll just disappoint yourself. I’m going to a bachelorette deal tonight, and I plan to take a few sips of a drink. I figure that just a few tastes won’t do anything horrible, and I didn’t have a BFP this morning so I’m still assuming I’m not pregnant. Or at the very least not pregnant enough to see it.
Post # 23
thank the Lord my husband is off the weekend! We were out and about all day. Really helped! Tomorrow I have plans too…. So yay if I can just make it Til next we’d or Thursday ill be good. I already have my little arsenal of tests… But I might need one more… frer… But I’ll wait Til wedmesday to get it so I’m not tempted.
my first cycle off of bc was llooonnngggg and I still have no idea if I o’d or not. I’m toying with the idea of never going back on the pill… Heck it’s so hard to get ku ( hopefully famous last words lol)
Post # 24
I did POAS on Friday because I was going to the winery… BFN. Allergies have been killing me for the first time in my life. Got my BFP today at 11DPO. CRAZY!