(Closed) Help me settle a debate between the FI and I….

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: How often do you get planned or impromptu massages?
    0-1 times a week : (97 votes)
    64 %
    2-5 times a week : (40 votes)
    26 %
    5-10 times a week : (10 votes)
    7 %
    10 or more times a week (I wish I was you) : (5 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Darling Husband knows I have a really troublesome neck and often goes out of his way to rub my neck a little when he hugs me. He knows massages are my favorite so I’d say at least every day he rubs my neck or shoulders, even if it’s just for a few seconds. They’re always under 5 minutes, though. Any longer than that and it turns into, uh, not a massage anymore. Of course it doesn’t help that every time he squeezes on my shoulder or neck i go ‘yes please’ and encourage it ๐Ÿ˜›

    Post # 4
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    3947 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Probably once a year if I’m lucky!

    Post # 5
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    3281 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I usally have to ask for massages…but he will generally oblige whenever I ask lol

    He rarely just starts giving me a massage

    Post # 6
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    10288 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    If I want a massage, I have to ask for one and it normally comes with a catch. So I would say that you’re pretty lucky. =)

    Post # 7
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    1418 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    We pretty much never give each other massages.  If one of us has a knot or a muscle seizing up, then we will, but other than that not really.  It’s usually me who has the knots though when it does happen.

    You are all lucky for getting massages on a regular basis!

    Post # 8
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    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    NEVAH get one .. i GIVE them cause he has a bad shoulderr … but i’m jealous of you ….. i even got him a FOOT massage at a spa for christmas .. yeah i’m jealous

    Post # 9
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    2867 posts
    Sugar bee

    He just comes up to me and starts rubbing my back, legs, and feet.  Sometimes I’m taken off guard and get a little annoyed (I know, lame) but for the most part it feels great!  I’d say 10+ times a week!  He also scratches my back pretty much everynight b/c it gets itchy, I have no clue why!

    Post # 10
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    3068 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    We usually give eachother a massage every day after work. We have been doing this since we first started dating 5 years ago! LOL. We LOVE it! We do shoulder and feet ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 11
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    3947 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @iheartnerdyboys: i know.  did it sound like my response thought otherwise? 

    Post # 12
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    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I rarely get an impromptu massage from DH! I have to ask for him to give me a massage or a back scratch!! You are a very very lucky woman!

    Post # 13
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    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Almost every night ๐Ÿ™‚ I ask for about half of them though. And gets one every night before bed, while he’s falling asleep. They’re not full out massages though, just like 10 minutes or so of light rubbing/scratching. 

    Post # 14
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    622 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    My Fiance will rub my back or shoulders at least every time we see each other (we don’t currently live together yet) i will rub his back as well its become a second nature thing we are always touching each other at some point or another (sounds kind of sappy but its no over kill) and if he’s staying over he will rub my back while i fall asleep ohh i love that ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 15
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I’d say about once a week. 

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