(Closed) how much does the groom REALLY help?

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: what percentage (time-wise) of the wedding did your groom help plan?







  • Post # 77
    509 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    good guestion…. My dh is not good at all at planning stuff. I do make his appoitments, make sure he pays his bills etc. he is not organized at all, in the other side i am a control freak. everything must be a specific way. I was talking to him about the things i though he “might” help for the wedding, the easy stuff. Car rental, dj, food tasting, invites on mail etc but i am not so sure he can do it without supervision, he will be calling me 24/7 asking me what i think. i know he is not a kid, but forgets things, not on top of things. 

    Post # 78
    477 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Well my Fiance cooks for a living so when it comes to picking the menu he will be heavly involved I’m only helping because my mother is very picky with food and he wants her (and others who may be as picky) happy and full. He is also in charge of his and his groomsmen suits all the input I had with that is that they be gray/silver. Now with the planning I clock in way more hours then him because I’m looking for insperation online and stuff and then bring them to him so we both can choose what to do. We are just in the beginning of planning tho but he’s been really great for the first week lol. Things he really wants he’s more helpful then with other things he just mainly wants to be informed. I will say he’s more into the wedding planning then most and states his input and desires very clearly. He did pout when I made him call a few places friday tho lol he hates the phone and asked why I couldn’t do it eventho I was calling venue all day the day before.

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