(Closed) Help me stay calm ladies!!

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

My story sounds so similar to yours. He started mentioning getting married more and watched some wedding shows with out complaining. He started to mention that he would want to do stuff like that at our wedding and blah blah. That was around Thanksgiving. I told him once to stop talking about “our wedding” until we were engaged and he said it’s coming soon. I was so excited. I figured Christmas time and was so excited. Then nothing. Then at his birthday (the end of January) He stands up and gives this big speech about how amazing I was and you could tell other people thought he was going to propose too, and then he just sat down. Ugh. Then Valentine’s Day he planned a huge trip romantic dinner. Starts talking to me at dinner has tears rolling down his face and I thought this is it. Nothing! He ended up proposing after that but it took over 4 months from when he mentioned it! So keep calm and don’t drive yourself crazy like I did. LOL

Post # 4
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77 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

ooo! how exciting!! im very happy for you!! it sounds promising!! (:

Post # 5
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10367 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think you should have a more concrete discussion about a timeline, or else this is destined to be a letdown rife with resentment should it drag out over the course of the year…

Post # 6
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

either way- you guy has plenty of brownie points- you won’t be in this section long- sop it all up girl =)

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I’m a bit confused. If you want to get married in 2 years – wouldn’t he propose now? So in fact, it’s not an early proposal, it’s exactly what you agreed on! 🙂

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