(Closed) Help me stop obsessing over bachelorette drama!

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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3697 posts
Sugar bee

Tell your sister to let people know that if they object to the extra $10 for the upgraded pass, they are welcome to wait in line to pay the cover charge and meet up with you inside.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think what you mentioning is really minor. I have an idea of the place you are speaking of and I would have an issueing paying 25 dollars to get in there.

I think the best idea would be to go at 7 and spend the money apts or food other there instead of at your friends. That being said I would have asked your sister to do that if multiple people didn’t want to pay, but if other people were fine with it I would suck it up and pay which I think your friend might do.

 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Best thing I can tell you to do is to just let your sister handle it.  I’m sure she can hold her own and if your friend is getting pissy about the cost, then she just doesn’t need to come.  People are always going to look for a reason to complain and unfortunately, weddings/bachelorette parties/showers/etc. are no different.  I do hate that you’re feeling stress over the drama, but take it from me (I just had some BM/bachelorette drama of my own) you won’t even care after it’s all said and done.  There was behind the scenes drama with mine, also, and I found out about it 2 days before my party. 

You’ve done what you can to keep the cost down and try to do something fun for everyone, given your sister the list, and let her run with it, so if there’s an issue, just let her deal with it.  I assure you that, unless your BM’s are just childish and immature, this will blow over and regardless of who comes, you girls will have an excellent time!  You have plenty on your plate as it is, I’m sure…don’t add this to it if it’s not completely necessary 🙂

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