Post # 1
Ok, so here’s the deal. Yes, I am a guy, I heard about this site from a friend of my fiance. My fiance and I have decided that we would get a “sex box” and fill it with things for each other during our engagement for when we are married. Lingerie/costumes, sex board games…
Everything we get is supposed to be a surprise for the other. She already pretty much knows the stuff I would love, lingerie (yes, I’m easy)…and she has been telling me she has some surprises in store already. But she’s not so sure what she would like. I’ve asked her, but she says she honestly doesn’t know. She said she gets most turned on when I think she is sexy. So while I can pick things out I’d like to see her in (which I’m doing), I’d like to get some things that are more “for her.” I think I’ll get a vibrator for her, but I can’t think of much else.
So ladies, what ideas do you have? I’m stumped. Help me out, please!
Post # 3
Handcuffs. If that’s too intense a silk tie works just as well.
Post # 4
Some things you might be interested in including..
1. Colored/Fun/Scented condoms (if you use them)
2. Flavored lubes, Warming Lubes, and Icy Cool lubes
3. Feather Whip
4. “Ring for sex” bell 🙂
5. Sex scratchers (these are SO fun and my husband and I love them)
6. Three piece lingerie set: One naughty piece, innocent piece, and a costume perhaps for roleplay
7. Chocolate body paint
8. Sexual positions book (these are also fun)
9. Massage oils (I highly suggest the Jasmine & Vanilla one from bath & body works. It smells amazing and wont break out her skin)
10. Vibrating penis ring (you put the ring on yourself and have sex with it)
Those are some fun ideas you could put in the sex box! Love the idea as well 🙂
Post # 5
One word: Oyster.
It’s super expensive but if you want to do some light play with control, it’s an external vibrator with a small harness and a wireless remote. If you went somewhere loud or spacious, like a loud restaurant, a concert, a park, etc. you could toy with it in public totally unnoticed.
Other than that some awesome ideas were already suggested… also if body paint is a bit too messy, there’s also like a sort of glittery edible powder you can get too.
Stay away from edible underwear of all sorts… I have yet to see any edible underwear that isn’t stupid looking, excessively messy, and for the bottom half, an invitation to infection.
One of those naughty dice games might be fun.
Post # 6
@chief85: Go to Adam and Eve and look up ladies toys. They have a TON of options on there. Vibrators, G Spot stimulators, flavored lube, anal beads (might be too much – haha!). Does she enjoy watching pornography? They have “couples” porn – it’s basically more modest porn if she’s not into major raunch. If she likes a more sensual experience, how about massage oils?
Post # 7
@PinkMermaid: Yes! +1 on sex books and cock ring!