Post # 1
Ugh I’m the worst. I’m chalking it up to getting girl sick today and having a generally bad week but I did something crazy this morning!
I basically started lightheartedly joking about proposing… The usual stuff I dothat annoys my bf. For some reason I COULD NOT drop it. Words are coming out and in my head I’m like “edmt84, shut the eff up!!!” but I was out of control.
My bf ended up telling me his entire proposal plan including the day – to prove that he is, in fact, thinking about it and that it is, in fact, going to happen soon.
I instantly felt horrible. I apologized profusely and we were fine but I’ve been feeling awful all day! So I’m gonna try and institute Mr Bees plan again (not my first rodeo). My poor, patient, incredible boyfriend. How terrible am I?!?!
Anyone wanna join me in a pact to leave our poor SOs alone?!?!
Post # 3
Aw! Maybe he just threw a date and a story out there to ‘ shut you up’ lol!!
Don’t worry I’m the SAME way. I get started and there is noooo stopping me. I used to say something( cough like 30 things cough ) a day to my SO about weddings/proposal and then I realized i’m going to ruin it. So I just stopped lol. Now it’s only every once in a while.
Like today when my 5 year old neice said ” uncle brown eyes, when are you and aunt brown eyes getting married” LOL I said how cute is she, 5 year olds know love when they see it lol.
Post # 4
Hahah kids are the best. Putting it out there for us. Thanks for makin me feel like I’m not the only crazy out there! If only my bf knew it wasn’t just me!
He snapped and said one of thesetimes I’m gonna have a ring in a drawer and I’m gonna throw it at you and you’re gonna feel awful. He’s so right. Gotta be better! Thanks for the support!
Post # 5
I will definitely join you, as I too cannot stop hounding my poor man. 🙂 He enjoys it because he knows stuff over me, which he finds incredibly exciting, but I would prefer not to know anything else. I have an obsessive personality.
I’ll join you! Message me and we can be crazy psycho girlfriends together and obsess in private! 🙂
Post # 6
Hahah yes!!!! Let’s do it. Day one… Tomorrow : )
Post # 7
@Edmt84: Count me in! LOL. I’ve been going strong for almost a month now. :)…..but it hasn’t been easy. There have been a few days that I had to go for a ride. Lol. Results are amazing, so that’s my motivation. I know you can do it. Whenever u feel the marriage madness in your mind coming out of your mouth…jump online and tell us instead of your SO. 🙂 We are here for you. Good luck!
Post # 8
@Edmt84: You are not alone! It is usually lighthearted, but sometimes it’s really bad. Last week I was fed up and tired of him saying he was “trying.” I said I had not seen him do anything and basically that he was all talk and no walk. I said I was so frustrated and sick of it that I was worried it wouldn’t be romantic. So then he started telling me what he was trying to plan. He told me that I would see it a mile away because he is doing it in a different country and that the human resources woman at his work said it was romantic. And now I am kicking myself because I feel like the surprise is already ruined. I even asked if he was just making this all up so that when he did it here I would be surprised and he said no, he has had this proposal idea for years and it’s not changing and he isn’t trying to trick me into being surprised. I need to stop before he tells me everything!! I’m in!!
Post # 9
I had a rough night last night… mostly because he brought it up… :/ And it was hard to stop myself after that.
I’ll be better today. I’ll sit here, post to boards, pinterest until I can’t anymore, and youtube proposals.
Also… I only have one class today… I need to busy myself.
DAY ONE here we go!
Post # 10
Yeah, I totally felt batshit crazy last night. My SO was gushing about his good friend popping the question and how proud of him he was, etc. etc. etc. And I couldn’t help but look completely jaded. I mean, I’m happy for them! But I couldn’t help it…and I unfortunately said something along the lines of “well, at least someones moving life along…” woops. instant regret. But he gets it and he always says things like “soon, be patient.”
Post # 11
@Edmt84: Yea you don’t want that to happen!! Try to just remember you know it’s going to happen so don’t push him.
Post # 12
- Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center
OMG i have messed up so bad this week. I have gotten some Trojen Women idea in my head that I won’t let him paw at me anymore until I get the ring. So when he started getting fresh I was putting my foot in my mouth before shoving my head up my ass saying dumb things like “I am not a whore!” …”You gotta put a down payment” (which he pointed out totally contraticts itself.
Ahh, it makes me nuts.
Post # 13
@Sapphire-Dreamer: LMAO @ “I am not a whore” and “down payment”. Woo we waiting bees can get a little crazy… But they make us this way! 😉
Post # 14
I have been able to dropp all proposal digging and went straight to wedding talk LOL
I mentioned vanues to SO, and who i would pick for my bridesmaids etc.. surprisingly SO has been really interested with all of that too and been very responsive with his own opinions 🙂
Post # 15
Haha. Oh, I love all of the ladies on here. I fit right into this kind of crazy. 🙂
So far so good for me today. 🙂 I also haven’t spoken to him yet. He’s at work.
Post # 16
Since other, more important, things have come up in the last few weeks, I have shut my mouth when it comes to proposals, etc. Last night I was a bit upset (happy for, but upset) when seeing a friend got engaged on FB, and when he heard my sigh and “So and so got engaged this weekend” he knew I was thinking “when? WHEN?” so I am vowing to not mention it this week… I was great last week and he was the one who kept saying stuff. So frustrating!