(Closed) Help me waiting bees, I'm outta control!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1416 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Aw! Maybe he just threw a date and a story out there to ‘ shut you up’ lol!!

  Don’t worry I’m the SAME way. I get started and there is noooo stopping me. I used to say something( cough like 30 things cough ) a day to my SO about weddings/proposal and then I realized i’m going to ruin it. So I just stopped lol. Now it’s only every once in a while.

  Like today when my 5 year old neice said ” uncle brown eyes, when are you and aunt brown eyes getting married” LOL I said how cute is she, 5 year olds know love when they see it lol.

Post # 5
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97 posts
Worker bee

I will definitely join you, as I too cannot stop hounding my poor man. πŸ™‚ He enjoys it because he knows stuff over me, which he finds incredibly exciting, but I would prefer not to know anything else. I have an obsessive personality.

I’ll join you! Message me and we can be crazy psycho girlfriends together and obsess in private! πŸ™‚

Post # 7
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198 posts
Blushing bee

@Edmt84:  Count me in! LOL. I’ve been going strong for almost a month now. :)…..but it hasn’t been easy. There have been a few days that I had to go for a ride. Lol. Results are amazing, so that’s my motivation. I know you can do it. Whenever u feel the marriage madness in your mind coming out of your mouth…jump online and tell us instead of your SO. πŸ™‚ We are here for you. Good luck!

Post # 8
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1979 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@Edmt84:  You are not alone!  It is usually lighthearted, but sometimes it’s really bad.  Last week I was fed up and tired of him saying he was “trying.”  I said I had not seen him do anything and basically that he was all talk and no walk.  I said I was so frustrated and sick of it that I was worried it wouldn’t be romantic.  So then he started telling me what he was trying to plan.  He told me that I would see it a mile away because he is doing it in a different country and that the human resources woman at his work said it was romantic.  And now I am kicking myself because I feel like the surprise is already ruined.  I even asked if he was just making this all up so that when he did it here I would be surprised and he said no, he has had this proposal idea for years and it’s not changing and he isn’t trying to trick me into being surprised.  I need to stop before he tells me everything!! I’m in!!

Post # 9
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97 posts
Worker bee

I had a rough night last night… mostly because he brought it up… :/ And it was hard to stop myself after that.

I’ll be better today. I’ll sit here, post to boards, pinterest until I can’t anymore, and youtube proposals.

Also… I only have one class today… I need to busy myself.

 

DAY ONE here we go!

Post # 10
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49 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Yeah, I totally felt batshit crazy last night. My SO was gushing about his good friend popping the question and how proud of him he was, etc. etc. etc. And I couldn’t help but look completely jaded. I mean, I’m happy for them! But I couldn’t help it…and I unfortunately said something along the lines of “well, at least someones moving life along…” woops. instant regret. But he gets it and he always says things like “soon, be patient.”

Post # 11
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1416 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Edmt84:  Yea you don’t want that to happen!! Try to just remember you know it’s going to happen so don’t push him.

  Good luck!!

Post # 12
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3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

OMG i have messed up so bad this week. I have gotten some Trojen Women idea in my head that I won’t let him paw at me anymore until I get the ring. So when he started getting fresh I was putting my foot in my mouth before shoving my head up my ass saying dumb things like “I am not a whore!” …”You gotta put a down payment” (which he pointed out totally contraticts itself.

Ahh, it makes me nuts.

Post # 13
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914 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Sapphire-Dreamer:  LMAO @ “I am not a whore” and “down payment”. Woo we waiting bees can get a little crazy… But they make us this way! πŸ˜‰

Post # 14
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1311 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I have been able to dropp all proposal digging and went straight to wedding talk LOL

I mentioned vanues to SO, and who i would pick for my bridesmaids etc.. surprisingly SO has been really interested with all of that too and been very responsive with his own opinions πŸ™‚ 

Post # 15
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97 posts
Worker bee

Haha. Oh, I love all of the ladies on here. I fit right into this kind of crazy. πŸ™‚

So far so good for me today. πŸ™‚ I also haven’t spoken to him yet. He’s at work.

Post # 16
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2564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Since other, more important, things have come up in the last few weeks, I have shut my mouth when it comes to proposals, etc.  Last night I was a bit upset (happy for, but upset) when seeing a friend got engaged on FB, and when he heard my sigh and “So and so got engaged this weekend” he knew I was thinking “when?  WHEN?” so I am vowing to not mention it this week…  I was great last week and he was the one who kept saying stuff.  So frustrating!

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