(Closed) Help! MOH has been uninvited

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would totally take the vacation still. Your sister would drive me nuts i couldn’t imagine if my sisters were like that. How did her fiance cancel your room if you paid for it?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

um, yeah,, I would def make this a vacation. . .i doubt she i going to pay you back for the dresses, but you could certainly ask

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2007

Im sorry you are going thru this. Is her lost I know is hard I have 3 sisters and they were going to be my bridesmaid. I even paid for my sister to come from Mexico then they got in a big fight with my now husband. They will never admit they were in the wrong the night before the wedding he called them to try to fix things. It was no good so I got married and could not belive that not my mom, dad or any of my sisters went. To this date is been a year and it hurts alot but I have learn that was their choice.

I don’t see anything wrong with make the best of it and go on vacation with your family after all is paid for. Can you change the date by any chance?  

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Take the vacation for sure. I doubt you’ll get money back for the dresses, but it’s worth a try. Plus you never know if she’ll come to her senses and all of a sudden want you there.

Post # 7
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Helper bee

If everything is paid for, and you can’t get a refund…. go on vacation! Nobody in their right mind would fault you for that. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this- it does sound like your sister is being pretty terrible. 

Just curious, if you and your hubs paid for everything yourselves, how does your sister’s fiance have any right to call and cancel your room?

Post # 8
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389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Definitely take a vacation.  What do your parents have to say about all of this?  Now I don’t have a sister, only brothers, and if one of them pulled anything like this my Mom would have ripped them a new asshole, despite the fact that we’re all grown.  She wouldn’t tolerate that sort of disrespect going on in her family.

If what you said is true and this isn’t just another troll post then your sister is a huge bitch, she won’t reimburse you for anything, and you should just go on your vacation and pretend her stupid bridezilla wedding isn’t happening at the same time.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I would go, relax and work on my tan with a Margirita in my hand.  You can not go and lose all of that money just because of her being a bridezilla.

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2011

WOW! That is horrible! Take the vacatoion! and yea, she can pick up the tab!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

You should try and see if you can change the resort to one of the sister resorts. Like transfer your stay to somewhere nearby if possible – just to get away from her. But she can’t cancel your room!

Post # 12
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

@DanielleZara: I agree.Try and go to another sister resort – ENJOY your vacation with your H and baby.

OP I think your sister is being a ridiculous brat. Like the bees on here ALWAYS say – no one is as excited about your wedding, no one wants to be blamed for something (the dress thing) and yeah babies are WAY more important than a wedding, sorry. Jeez.Sorry your sister is being this way, but I sort of doubt this is an isolated incident. If my sister did that, she would get an “EXCUSE me?” from me.

And I second the question – what the heck does your mother or other family members think about her behavior and actions?

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

TAKE THE VACATION…..SOUNDS LIKE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DESERVE IT HAVE FUN

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2007

@loomie:I completely understand that my parents specialy my mom was the same way they could not do anything wrong in tgere eyes. Only me since I am the oldest I really hope things get better if thet don’t like I said is her lost. Keep you head up!

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