(Closed) Help! MOH has been uninvited

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
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6891 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

@loomie: I agree that your parents sound like they are enabling this type of rude behavior. She’s the baby? Really? I mean… so? She’s supposedly mature enough to get married, she should be mature enough to not treat her sister like s*it.

Sorry that you couldn’t book a sister resort – I would find out their schedule and be at the OPPOSITE place.

Post # 18
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1854 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Definitely take the vacation. They can not cancel the room for you as you paid for it, plus, resorts are so big that it is very possible not to run into them at all.

Post # 19
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6392 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@loomie: Whoah. That does sound like a parenting fail :(. That said, your sister is a grown woman now! She should have realized by now that you can’t treat people like crap and expect them to bow to you! 

Definitely take the vacation. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this!

Post # 21
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6891 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

🙁 It’s really sad that her being a brat = you being the outcast. I’m sorry they are taking her side (the wrong side, IMO) but I hope it can all be worked out eventually.

Post # 22
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14970 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Definitely take the vacation and I would not even give a crap if I ran into her on the way to saying her vows!  She already ruined the relationship… you might as well enjoy an already paid for vacation.  She cannot possibly expect you to just let all that go to waste.  Hope it works out for you.

Post # 23
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376 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I can’t understand this kind of behavior. My family gets crazy and does shit like this, but we usually make up in less than a day. No chance that she will change her mind, you think?

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