(Closed) HELP!!!! MOH in distress!!!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
654 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

The first dress was only $20?  If she’s changing dresses that have already been paid for, I would have said she should pay, but if the first one was only twenty bucks it’s not really that big a deal.  Maybe she should at least give each of you back the cost of the original dresses.  Other than that, I don’t know what you can actually do without causing more drama than is already happening here.  And why would you want that?  Other Bridesmaid or Best Man sounds like kind of a bitch for talking to the bride behind your back, but that’s what happens when girls play together.  *shrug*

Sorry sweetie, them’s the breaks.

PS: That sounds like a lot of cash to be spending on someone else’s wedding, Maid/Matron of Honor or not.  Are the other girls/families not splitting the costs of these events with you? 

Post # 5
489 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Well as a bride, I do feel bad for the BM’s and don’t want them to spend too much money.  But a large part of that would be not asking them to spend $200 on a dress.  Perhaps you can suggest to her nicely that you stick with the original dresses?  Otherwise, tell her that you’re sorry anyone said anything to her about money and for her not to worry about it, it’ll be taken care of.  It sounds like you’re doing a really great job as Maid/Matron of Honor.  And if she wants to pay for your dress, I would let her, thats not unreasonable, a lot of brides do that if they can afford it.


Good luck!

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