(Closed) Help. My fiance cheated

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 182
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Any updates?

Post # 182
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Wannabee

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emceecee:  Hi – I am in the same boat as you! I have been with my fiance since I was just 16 years old. Now, I am 23. We have been engaged since February & we were SUPPOSED to get married in August! I had just found out three weeks ago that he has been cheating on my through craigslist for YEARS. He was also replying to m4m posts on craigslist – i had no idea that he had any homosexual tendencies either. He said that he just did that because guys would repsond more than girls on craigslist, so he just flipped it into his head for what he wanted it to be. 

 

I also found out that he did buy a hotel for a woman – but the girl did not show. He said he had not hooked up with anyone off of Craiglist – that it was all for the mental arousal. I’m just not sure what to do either! What did you end up doing!?

Post # 183
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

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Mrs. Eagle:  I disagree that bisexual people “need” that part of their sexuality to be fulfilled. That’s kind of like saying a straight person needs affairs to be fulfilled. lol A person makes a choice to be faithful when they get married. period. Bisexual or not.

Post # 184
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Walk away now. Call off the wedding. Eat the costs. It would still be far easier than going through with it and then filing for divorce later.

Post # 185
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I just realized this thread is years old. I wonder what happened.

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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

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demarekl:  I personally couldn’t stay in a relationship like that, my health would be too important to me.

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

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CorvusCorax:  lol I did the same thing 

Post # 188
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Busy bee

Look honey this guy probably does love you as a friend but HE IS GAY it sucks because you have given yourself to this person but at the end of the day he is gay. He will always be gaythat is somsomething you cant change. For whatever reason he feels he cant come out but its not healthy for him to be in the closet and continue to hurt women this way he will never physically be able to give himself completely to a woman. I advise because this is not an everyday case of finance cheating you break up with of course but also be there for him as hard as it is he is probably so confused and scared situations like this can be so hard but be strong and find it in your heart to forgive him he cant help the way he was born.

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