(Closed) HELP!!! My Fiance’s *SSHOLE best friend is trying to break us up!!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Hostess
11167 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

Wow that is a really crappy situation. I am really sorry!

As my pastor so eloquently put it (apologize for the religious reference) the most important thing in a marriage is “protecting the relationship.” If anyone threatens the relationship then it needs to be dealt with immediately. It is quite clear that this friend doesn’t respect you, your relationship or your Darling Husband. If he doesn’t have any respect then he isn’t really a friend and shouldn’t be allowed back into your lives, plain and simple.

I get that it will be difficult to convince your Darling Husband of the threat his friend poses but somehow the conversation needs to occur.

 

PS I am confused…you are married AND planning a wedding? 🙂

Post # 4
Member
2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Oh sweetheart, that is terrible.
Quite honestly I would sit down and make a list of all the reasons why you do not whant sean at your wedding.   Then make a list of all the reasons you would allow him to be there ( friends with Fiance for forever, Fiance wants him there)  and show them to your Fiance. Tell him honestly, calmly and rationally the way you feel about him/ him attening your wedding.

Prehaps he will be ok with sean not attending. Personally, I know My Fiance would have ended the relationship with that friend, because he has done it.

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