- 11 years ago
- Wedding: October 2009
I have counseled many women and have taught on healthy relationships to groups. As being somewhat aware of these type of dynamics I have to tell you that THIS IS A HUGE RED FLAG! HUUUUGGGEEEEEE!!! I mean no disrespect, but honestly think about the situation. Your soon to be husband and family are prioritizing a divorce rather than celebrating a union. I would feel so disrespected and hurt.
I can’t even belieive your fiance’s response. What type of husband would treat his wife that way? If your fiance gets mad at you about the issue that is a SERIOUS problem. He is on the side of his family and not you. Can you imagine what it will be like in marraige? This is a sure sign of what is to come…he will put his family before your desires and wishes.
The fact that you even have to address this as an issue in the first place is beyond reasoning. It is unfair, selfish, unthoughtful, uncaring, and RUDE. If I were you I would examine the entire relaionship before you take aother step closer to walking down the aisle.