- 5 years ago
…and she’s the LAST person on this earth who should be procreating.
My sister is 22, but has the maturity and the intelligence of a 14 year-old. She dropped out of high school, quit GED classes, lost her car because she didn’t have insurance or proper tags/license plates, steals, lies, cheats, etc etc. I don’t talk to my sister. She’s not invited to my upcoming wedding.
She got knocked up by a two-time felon that she’s been dating. She recently had a puppy get hit by a car because she,, and her dirt ass Boyfriend or Best Friend took the fence down in the backyard to scrap. Then, she got another puppy, which she can barely afford to feed. So why not add a child to the mix?
She has stolen and sold things of my mother’s and grandmother’s who are both deceased. (She lives in my parents house. My dad moved out, she moved in). She hangs around with people who do drugs (like, hard drugs), though I don’t think she does them. She has no job. I’m not sure how she can afford to support herself, let alone how she will support a child.
Did I mention Baby Daddy has 3 kids by another girl? He doesn’t pay child support for them. I’m not sure why she wants to have a kid with this deadbeat. I
know she hasn’t been taking care of herself as she should be with a baby on the way. She only recently went to an OB for the first time at 5 months pregnant. She’s not smart enough to realize how big of a fucking mistake she’s making.
Did I mention she also lied to my dad about getting an abortion?
My sister and I are night and day. If anyone should be having a kid, it should be me. I’m 25, will be graduating with a Specialist degree this year. I will have a stable job come August. I have a wonderful relationship with my fiance. I’m smart. I’m mature. I’m going places. She’s going nowhere. Sorry to sound conceited, but it’s the truth.
I can’t help but feel an incredible amount of stress about this. I have a pit in my stomach just thinking the environment this child will grow up in. I’m not sure what I’m asking of you guys, if anything. I just had to get all of this off of my chest. UGH!
- This topic was modified 4 years, 6 months ago by MichiganGirl24.