- 5 years ago
I honEstly don’t think it gets worst then my story…..I’m 24
n my bf is 37 we have been dating since I was 21!! gold digger flag not at all ! I met him when my life was a mess x husband had left me for another women whose is the service like he is I was devastated that my marriage had ended I got marry at 17 n he left me for another women when I was 20 at 21 I met my bf whose whose 37 , 34 at the time n I ha. My reservation at first. But he swept me off my feet he made me feel amazing he was a divorced single father of two n I was divorced with my son single mother ….but not everything is rainbow n roses …. he lives In a house that no joke is rat infested they keep their dirty clothes on the floor just dump there I have clean n disenfected his home trying to sympathesize the fact that he was a single father n that the kids don’t have a mother figure I have taken care of his kids when he left for fleet week he’s also in the service ! I have organize birthday party for each of his two kids who are now 9 n 17 ! who by the walka over the dirty clothes on the floor who wakes up at 1 on the weekends who doesn’t even feed her brother while her father is at work she’s absolutly In inconsiderate …..his son 9 n my 7 getting along very well they say they are brothers! after 9 months of dating he cheated on me I forgave him I was In love n didn’t want to start over felt like another failure …..second yr our relationship bbecame stronger his kids call me mom till this day ……summer 2012 he drank so much n blacked out n hit me n forgave him because he claim to not remember a thing his stomach burst n was hospitalized almost die I was by his bed side every dy qquit college to take care of him n cook for him puree dinner for fast recovery once he got better he was picking up drinking alot more around his military friends n took a habit of calling me drunk n being mean hhe’s not a happy drunk his a raging angry to my luck (sarcasm ) to b clear he doesnt pay my bills or anything ive put up with aLl this because I’m in love with him because I don’t. Want to start over n go from man to man I want to b with him because I feel completely at loss when I’m not with him …..I week before Xmas he called me drunk so I politely said please don’t call me until u ssober up he went bazurk made his daughter call me from her cell made his friend call me all this at midnight need I say it was a school dy for me n my son had to b up early so I put my phone on silent n went to bed in the morning I apologize n said didnt mean to ignore him just refuse to speak to him when he’s drunk ! he said not worries we are done !! that should teach u never to ignore my calls again ! I was devastated n heart broken with chrisTmas just one week away naturally I fled to my family in NYC for comfort n support after several dys of trying to fix things with him I cry n beg but he refuse to take me back two yrs of working so hard into this relationship that has taken alot from me n over just like that a few dys before I decide it to leave to NYC I asked him if he was sure he didn’t want me spending christmas with him n his last words were I don’t care where u spend Christmas !!! Xmas dy came n he tx me a picengagement ring a beautiful piece I must say along with the picture was a tx saying ” I said I didn’t care where u spend Xmas because I thought u would come to spend it with me ” I broke to tears I thought I was going to loose it !!! I waited 3 yrs for him to finally commit ! N this is what he does to me !!?? when I went back after the holidays we made up ! n one drunk night he sent me another pic message of the ring ! when I went over for dinner he gave me n my son our gift everything but the ring he shown me threw tx I couldn’t hold my tongue any longer n spill out saying it was unfair that he was torturing me this way and if anything I deserve that ring for putting up with all the hell he has put me these past years he said not that I had misses my chance !!! idk what to do should Wait for him to see if he propose on valentines ? should I move on ? Idk what to do I need advice !