(Closed) Help. Need honest option. Wedding is Saturday btw!

posted 7 years ago in Dress
Post # 32
694 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think I am agreeing with most of the posts on here, I definitely like it better without the lace! Of course its more importat that you do what makes you comfortable, but I really don’t think it is that revealing! It looks great in the first picture!! Good luck! =]

Post # 33
339 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

No lace! I think you look amazing!

Post # 34
73 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I really like the first photo. I think the dress looks beautiful on you.

Post # 35
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I like the first photo without the lace. It does not look too revealing or too much at all.

Post # 36
292 posts
Helper bee

Leave as is!!!

Post # 37
357 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2005

I hate to be the only naysayer here, but I skimmed first, and just looked at the pictures.  The first one, my gut reaction was, “Ew.  No.”  Then I scrolled to the second and I was like, “Ah!  Much better.”

When *everyone* disagreed with me, I went back to look, and what I think I’m really responding to is your posture.  In the first, it looks like you’re slouching to keep your boobs in the dress.  In the secound, it looks like you’re standing straight, proud, and confident.

If that’s just a fluke of the angles that two quick phone shots caught you at, then pick whichever option you prefer.  If the cleavage option makes you feel like you need to slouch, and you find yourself standing like that regularly, please wear the extra lace.  It doesn’t look bad, and a confident bearing will be far more noticeable on the day than whether your lace matches.

Post # 38
1998 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

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@moriah:  +1! You took the words right out of my mouth! I actually thought, at first glance, the second picture was a different dress and I loved it so much more lol.  

Oh, and OP, your necklace in the first picture is absolutely to die for! I love it!

Post # 39
1146 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

the lace looks out of place, and almost like some sort of undergarment is showing, which is worse than cleavage. i think that amount of cleavage is still tasteful and even preferable to no hint whatsoever which would just look stiff. 

Post # 40
11268 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

definitely without the lace thing.  i really don’t think too much is showing without it.

just so long as you are comfortable.

Post # 42
877 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - A Beautiful converted Barn

1st pic – definately!! think the lace distracts from the lovely detailing and sparkle on the sweetheart neckline. also LOVE the belt and necklace in the 1st pic. cleavage all the way!!x

Post # 43
109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

First look for sure! You’re boobs look lovely and not too much!

Post # 45
9918 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL


Post # 46
195 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Wear it as is! Looks great!

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